MY BFS MOM HATES ME!!!, things are getting worse Options

[CO0KiE]

[font=Arial]this is pretty long so be prepared ^_^

hmm ok well first i met this guy Elmer.. a lllooooong time ago! about a few years ago. i had a crush on him and he had a crush on me... but we never saw each other after that.. THEN i met him again in sept.2005` at a YFC Camp. we remembered each other but didnt really talk. he gave me his number and since the last day of camp.. weve been talking EVERY SINGLE DAY even up til` around 4am. wed both get in trouble alot too. finally on Jan. 06, 2006 at 1:43am HE ASKED ME OUT <333 3 days before my birthday ! but ever since he and i talk on the phone.. his mom n dad never liked me. my mom&dad never knew either. >.< a few weeks after we were going out i had a bad feeling about that day.. & i was right. His mom told my aunt about me & him and she told my mom!!!! my mom talked to me.. & she thinks hes my first BF but he isnt.. =] IM HIS first GF cuz hes always been lookin` for the right girl that he wanted to be with. weeeellllll.. amazingly my mom WANTED me to tell her and she thought it was cute. she kept asking why i chose him.. but yeah. THEN.. things get worse.. his dads always yelling at him. and his parents are such SDHFDGGH yeah ! grr.. his dad doesnt really care && my parents talked to him. MY DAD DOESNT KNOW ABOUT ME & HIM. but my mom knows. one day a few months ago elmer told me he wouldnt hug me until i talked to his mom. so i gathered all my courage and walked up to her with a friend of mine. his mom IGNORED ME THE HOLE TIME!! i was so upset. she acts like a teenager. she told him she AUTOMATICALLY knew who i was & what kinda girl i was with just one look at me. WTF IS THAT ?! then she talks SOOO much mess about me.. shes like a damn` kid or something. ugh. i try to be nice.. i respect her & all that but shes so MEAN. she cant hold onto him forever. sdghogfiogh AGH ! & she MAD ALSO cuz i invite him to the movies and parties.. WTF ? THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING THAT!!!!! his mom is so closeminded too!! jeez` Elmers always defending me and his mom gets mad when he does that. we dont see each other alot.. just.. a few times a month.. the longest ive gone without seeing him is about 2 months ? hmm && right now.. last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago. jeez` idk what his moms problem is. i dont understand her and she doesnt even wanna get to know me or anything ! my aunt is trying to set up a gathering thing for my parents & his & my aunt & whatever.. but his moms being a bitch` & doesnt wanna. my parents dont like his mom so whatever. idk..

HELP ME ! how am i supposed to deal with this !? i love him so much..

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but things are just getting worse & i dont really know how to explain the rest of it..

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

I didn't meet up to the moms standards. she didn't like filipino guys like me. who waste time playing music. That pissed me off and we started an arguement..and she was like how can a person who can't keep their grades be anything with your life..do you even plan on going to college..I believe there isn't going to be a bright future for you and my daughter..yeah she kinda hurt me right there..and my ex..didn't even say anything..so I felt like my time was just being wasted..that my fighting had no effect if she didn't do anything..i felt as my heart was torn into so many pieces that it can never be repaired..and her dad despised me...I kept my grades up..but it wasn't good enough for their taste..so I gave up..said my goodbyes...and had the hardest time of my year..questioning myself..

[CO0KiE]

I didn't meet up to the moms standards. she didn't like filipino guys like me. who waste time playing music. That pissed me off and we started an arguement..and she was like how can a person who can't keep their grades be anything with your life..do you even plan on going to college..I believe there isn't going to be a bright future for you and my daughter..yeah she kinda hurt me right there..and my ex..didn't even say anything..so I felt like my time was just being wasted..that my fighting had no effect if she didn't do anything..i felt as my heart was torn into so many pieces that it can never be repaired..and her dad despised me...I kept my grades up..but it wasn't good enough for their taste..so I gave up..said my goodbyes...and had the hardest time of my year..questioning myself..

awww.. im sorry.. that sucks.. i try to talk to his mom but she doesnt want me talkin to her.. shes uncomfortable with me around her.. she thinks she knows me by just one look at me.. she thinks im lazy... & all this other crap. she even told my bf that she doesnt like me. but my bf is defending both me&himself` i just with things were different.. idk how to get his mom to like me.. and im not gonna just kiss up to her n crap cuz thats now what i do.. so yeah.. shes so MEAN. so closeminded.. so rude.. & so arrogant.. jeez`.. she cant hold onto him forever.. and i hope you find the right girl for you =] next time that girl shouldve said something if she wanted to keep youre relationship going..