MY BFS MOM HATES ME!!!, things are getting worse Options

[CO0KiE]

[font=Arial]this is pretty long so be prepared ^_^

hmm ok well first i met this guy Elmer.. a lllooooong time ago! about a few years ago. i had a crush on him and he had a crush on me... but we never saw each other after that.. THEN i met him again in sept.2005` at a YFC Camp. we remembered each other but didnt really talk. he gave me his number and since the last day of camp.. weve been talking EVERY SINGLE DAY even up til` around 4am. wed both get in trouble alot too. finally on Jan. 06, 2006 at 1:43am HE ASKED ME OUT <333 3 days before my birthday ! but ever since he and i talk on the phone.. his mom n dad never liked me. my mom&dad never knew either. >.< a few weeks after we were going out i had a bad feeling about that day.. & i was right. His mom told my aunt about me & him and she told my mom!!!! my mom talked to me.. & she thinks hes my first BF but he isnt.. =] IM HIS first GF cuz hes always been lookin` for the right girl that he wanted to be with. weeeellllll.. amazingly my mom WANTED me to tell her and she thought it was cute. she kept asking why i chose him.. but yeah. THEN.. things get worse.. his dads always yelling at him. and his parents are such SDHFDGGH yeah ! grr.. his dad doesnt really care && my parents talked to him. MY DAD DOESNT KNOW ABOUT ME & HIM. but my mom knows. one day a few months ago elmer told me he wouldnt hug me until i talked to his mom. so i gathered all my courage and walked up to her with a friend of mine. his mom IGNORED ME THE HOLE TIME!! i was so upset. she acts like a teenager. she told him she AUTOMATICALLY knew who i was & what kinda girl i was with just one look at me. WTF IS THAT ?! then she talks SOOO much mess about me.. shes like a damn` kid or something. ugh. i try to be nice.. i respect her & all that but shes so MEAN. she cant hold onto him forever. sdghogfiogh AGH ! & she MAD ALSO cuz i invite him to the movies and parties.. WTF ? THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING THAT!!!!! his mom is so closeminded too!! jeez` Elmers always defending me and his mom gets mad when he does that. we dont see each other alot.. just.. a few times a month.. the longest ive gone without seeing him is about 2 months ? hmm && right now.. last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago. jeez` idk what his moms problem is. i dont understand her and she doesnt even wanna get to know me or anything ! my aunt is trying to set up a gathering thing for my parents & his & my aunt & whatever.. but his moms being a bitch` & doesnt wanna. my parents dont like his mom so whatever. idk..

HELP ME ! how am i supposed to deal with this !? i love him so much..

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but things are just getting worse & i dont really know how to explain the rest of it..

[Dreamers]

I thought of a different way to handle it too!

This is just me, you should probably be yourself but this is how i would handle it too

I feel you have problems with me i really care about your son so i think we should talk and get things straightened out between us to the point where we can at least be civil to one another.
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Remember, just my suggestion, its all you when the time comes.

[CO0KiE]

I thought of a different way to handle it too!

This is just me, you should probably be yourself but this is how i would handle it too

I feel you have problems with me i really care about your son so i think we should talk and get things straightened out between us to the point where we can at least be civil to one another.
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Remember, just my suggestion, its all you when the time comes.

thats what i would do but you see.. SHE IGNORES ME !!!

Tell your mom and if she under stands and is considerate she will tell him to back off or you can do it the fun way: play tricks on him woopie coushons on his seats shaving cream in his walet that will drive him away

WHAT ? i dont wanna DRiVE MY BF AWAY!!! lol

I meant break up with him and tell his mom to shoot her son because you're pregnant now. that works EvERYTIME

but i dont wanna break up with him.. && if i say that im pregnant shes gonna hate me even more!!!! & plus i dont think hed like that idea..

wow dude is gonna have a birthday..and you can't do nothing about it..cuz the mom is soo drama queen..but then after you and you boy get into arguements..then he gets into arguement with his mom..which causes him not to see you..I think he should step up, go against his parents wishes instead of falling back behind after every fight. If you love him. right now you can support him...and it seems that his parents...are really something else..like one of them strict parents you see in filipino dramas..usually it happens to girls..but for a guy I dunno. but it looks like it's been quite awhile since you and him been going out...and not seeing him either must hurt..and to feel like maybe things are getting out of hand..hold your head high..you've done alot and you've loved alot to let his parents hold you down..if he believes in you, you believe in him..maybe you'll get your big break. dont give up.

yeah if u seen Gulong Ng Palad this is what it reminds me of.. jeez`.. >.< My dad doesnt know and ithink hes gonna find out soon.. & my mom likes him.. his mom doesnt like the way that SUPPOSEDLY since he met ME.. hes been rebellious or whatever.. but its only because his mom is so rude.. and is such a BLAAHHHH !! yeah his dad doesnt care but his mom wont let him go anywhere !! because the first thing she asks is: IS NICKI GONNA BE THERE? jeez` im not gonna do anything to her son or HER! i dont get her.. AGH!!! hmm salamat.. ^_^ & im N0T gonna give up.. >:P