MY BFS MOM HATES ME!!!, things are getting worse Options

[CO0KiE]

[font=Arial]this is pretty long so be prepared ^_^

hmm ok well first i met this guy Elmer.. a lllooooong time ago! about a few years ago. i had a crush on him and he had a crush on me... but we never saw each other after that.. THEN i met him again in sept.2005` at a YFC Camp. we remembered each other but didnt really talk. he gave me his number and since the last day of camp.. weve been talking EVERY SINGLE DAY even up til` around 4am. wed both get in trouble alot too. finally on Jan. 06, 2006 at 1:43am HE ASKED ME OUT <333 3 days before my birthday ! but ever since he and i talk on the phone.. his mom n dad never liked me. my mom&dad never knew either. >.< a few weeks after we were going out i had a bad feeling about that day.. & i was right. His mom told my aunt about me & him and she told my mom!!!! my mom talked to me.. & she thinks hes my first BF but he isnt.. =] IM HIS first GF cuz hes always been lookin` for the right girl that he wanted to be with. weeeellllll.. amazingly my mom WANTED me to tell her and she thought it was cute. she kept asking why i chose him.. but yeah. THEN.. things get worse.. his dads always yelling at him. and his parents are such SDHFDGGH yeah ! grr.. his dad doesnt really care && my parents talked to him. MY DAD DOESNT KNOW ABOUT ME & HIM. but my mom knows. one day a few months ago elmer told me he wouldnt hug me until i talked to his mom. so i gathered all my courage and walked up to her with a friend of mine. his mom IGNORED ME THE HOLE TIME!! i was so upset. she acts like a teenager. she told him she AUTOMATICALLY knew who i was & what kinda girl i was with just one look at me. WTF IS THAT ?! then she talks SOOO much mess about me.. shes like a damn` kid or something. ugh. i try to be nice.. i respect her & all that but shes so MEAN. she cant hold onto him forever. sdghogfiogh AGH ! & she MAD ALSO cuz i invite him to the movies and parties.. WTF ? THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING THAT!!!!! his mom is so closeminded too!! jeez` Elmers always defending me and his mom gets mad when he does that. we dont see each other alot.. just.. a few times a month.. the longest ive gone without seeing him is about 2 months ? hmm && right now.. last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago. jeez` idk what his moms problem is. i dont understand her and she doesnt even wanna get to know me or anything ! my aunt is trying to set up a gathering thing for my parents & his & my aunt & whatever.. but his moms being a bitch` & doesnt wanna. my parents dont like his mom so whatever. idk..

HELP ME ! how am i supposed to deal with this !? i love him so much..

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but things are just getting worse & i dont really know how to explain the rest of it..

[jsmooth4ever]

I once had this problem not because I feared anyones parents no they tend to respect me because I always was never afraid to step right up and meet them but this isnt the issue I do think that for an adult she is being childish and smothering (depending on age but yes childish) you made an effort to communicate with her if she does not accept that be your own person and avoid her if you can.

There is no convincing her if she put you in a certain class in her mind she probably thinks your after one thing and is trying to protect him the best way she knows how the bad part is thats only gonna make him rebelious.

Since your mom already knows have you talked to her about the way that she treats you?

Anywho it is not the parents you are dating it is the son none of that should matter to you right now its not like your getting married to him tomorrow get your education get your career going and see where it takes you two do not worry about his parents.

[CO0KiE]

I once had this problem not because I feared anyones parents no they tend to respect me because I always was never afraid to step right up and meet them but this isnt the issue I do think that for an adult she is being childish and smothering (depending on age but yes childish) you made an effort to communicate with her if she does not accept that be your own person and avoid her if you can.

There is no convincing her if she put you in a certain class in her mind she probably thinks your after one thing and is trying to protect him the best way she knows how the bad part is thats only gonna make him rebelious.

Since your mom already knows have you talked to her about the way that she treats you?

Anywho it is not the parents you are dating it is the son none of that should matter to you right now its not like your getting married to him tomorrow get your education get your career going and see where it takes you two do not worry about his parents.

i know werenot gonna get married but i dont wanna lose him !!! my mom knows about his mom and so does my dad and now its starting a WHOLE mess now !! everythings gay !! he cant go to anything i invite him to.. he never has.. >.<