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post Aug 2 2006, 04:23 PM
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i tried searching first..

when i meet a new guy its really hard for me to talk to them the same way i talk to a girl, even if im not attracted to them, at all. I have nothing to say and I cant be myself. Im shy in general, but with guys its worse. I want to be one of those girls with alot of guy friends, but i cant make it happen. im going to a new school next year, so i have a chance to make new friends.

how you do act when you meet new people, guys especially. and any advice for me?
 
 
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post Aug 3 2006, 05:54 AM
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haha awe <3

I'm a naturally shy person. Its bad, I even hide behind people. But I don't know if someone brings up a interest that I adore I just seem to have a really neat conversation with them, and I love video games and computer type things. So when ever a guy brings up video games I have these weird in depth conversations with them about them pinch.gif


Also I use to really be in to sports as well, so I suppose that helped.

Anyway just be yourself and wait for people to come by and just listen to other people and their opinions, if you have questions ask them. Yes being shy is a down fall on actually asking questions but just think it over in your head and tell yourself you can do it and go do it!


Good luck flowers.gif if you believe in yourself you'll do great.
 

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one_and_only   becoming friends with guys   Aug 2 2006, 04:23 PM
timeflies51   Be yourself. That's all I can say. You'll ...   Aug 2 2006, 04:55 PM
peggysturr   Find similar interest between each other and expan...   Aug 2 2006, 05:12 PM
helllla jankyyyy   My problem is the opposite for you. I get along w...   Aug 2 2006, 05:23 PM
gigiopolis   If you're shy, try to find people that you can...   Aug 2 2006, 05:27 PM
Quarantine.   be yourself. thats one key rule in that. new schoo...   Aug 2 2006, 06:39 PM
msladyliberty   Just be someone else. Don't be yourself. j...   Aug 2 2006, 07:04 PM
one_and_only   being "myself" means being all dorky, be...   Aug 2 2006, 09:49 PM
Quarantine.   QUOTE(one_and_only @ Aug 2 2006, 10:49 PM...   Aug 3 2006, 01:03 AM
Smoogrish   QUOTE(one_and_only @ Aug 2 2006, 10:49 PM...   Aug 4 2006, 10:44 AM
Youraisemeup   Be yourself, they can take it or leave it. I'm...   Aug 2 2006, 10:52 PM
one_and_only   yea people that are already my friends, im cool bu...   Aug 2 2006, 10:58 PM
gigiopolis   Screw people who can't appreciate someone who...   Aug 2 2006, 11:29 PM
monkieluver12   When I meet people I'm just myself and act the...   Aug 3 2006, 01:01 AM
vn cuti3   i agree with all these people just be yourself. so...   Aug 3 2006, 01:07 AM
Quarantine.   i just realized, if they don't like your for b...   Aug 3 2006, 01:15 AM
Brittany Rachelle   What would make you want to be friends with them ...   Aug 3 2006, 01:23 AM
This Confession   haha awe <3 I'm a naturally shy person. It...   Aug 3 2006, 05:54 AM
bonjour_x   i used to be really shy around boys but then i sta...   Aug 3 2006, 09:00 AM
Jessica_Winchester   I talk to guys basically like I would to a girl. O...   Aug 3 2006, 06:22 PM
pinayprincess   for acting around guys: i act myself.. idc if they...   Aug 3 2006, 07:27 PM
just_rissa   Just always tell yourself, "He's cool... ...   Aug 3 2006, 10:27 PM
one_and_only   thanks for the advice! :] ill try all this ou...   Aug 4 2006, 12:40 AM
Wo0yaPo0ya   I have a lot of guy friends and I find it easier t...   Aug 4 2006, 10:59 AM
xbabyboo   Don`t change..just be yourself..let things com...   Aug 4 2006, 05:12 PM
BrokenDream   Just like you, I'm shy around guys. I only hav...   Aug 5 2006, 08:14 AM


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