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 Aug 2 2006, 04:23 PM
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 tell me more.  Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640  |
i tried searching first..
when i meet a new guy its really hard for me to talk to them the same way i talk to a girl, even if im not attracted to them, at all. I have nothing to say and I cant be myself. Im shy in general, but with guys its worse. I want to be one of those girls with alot of guy friends, but i cant make it happen. im going to a new school next year, so i have a chance to make new friends. how you do act when you meet new people, guys especially. and any advice for me? |
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Aug 2 2006, 05:27 PM
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If you're shy, try to find people that you can talk to, and don't force yourself to be someone else.
I get along fine with guys that act fine around me. There are some guys that try and act cool and don't say anything, and don't try to make any conversation at all. I can never really become friends with those kind of people. And if that happens to you, remember that it's not your fault that they're so incredibly boring. I am, however, great friends with a few guys that are extremely outgoing and talk about anything and everything. If you find someone who's open enough to talk to, it'll be easy for you to open up to them, too. You'll break your shyness barrier easily. And you know, that rule replies to friends of all genders, not just males. Just remember not to change yourself around too much to make friends. =) Remember, your friends should be compatible to your tastes, and you shouldn't have to change yourself to "fit in". ...wow, that was a bit repetitive. =p |
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one_and_only becoming friends with guys Aug 2 2006, 04:23 PM
timeflies51 Be yourself. That's all I can say. You'll ... Aug 2 2006, 04:55 PM peggysturr Find similar interest between each other and expan... Aug 2 2006, 05:12 PM helllla jankyyyy My problem is the opposite for you.
I get along w... Aug 2 2006, 05:23 PM Quarantine. be yourself.
thats one key rule in that.
new schoo... Aug 2 2006, 06:39 PM msladyliberty Just be someone else. Don't be yourself.
j... Aug 2 2006, 07:04 PM one_and_only being "myself" means being all dorky, be... Aug 2 2006, 09:49 PM
Quarantine. QUOTE(one_and_only @ Aug 2 2006, 10:49 PM... Aug 3 2006, 01:03 AM
Smoogrish QUOTE(one_and_only @ Aug 2 2006, 10:49 PM... Aug 4 2006, 10:44 AM Youraisemeup Be yourself, they can take it or leave it. I'm... Aug 2 2006, 10:52 PM one_and_only yea people that are already my friends, im cool
bu... Aug 2 2006, 10:58 PM gigiopolis Screw people who can't appreciate someone who... Aug 2 2006, 11:29 PM monkieluver12 When I meet people I'm just myself and act the... Aug 3 2006, 01:01 AM vn cuti3 i agree with all these people just be yourself. so... Aug 3 2006, 01:07 AM Quarantine. i just realized, if they don't like your for b... Aug 3 2006, 01:15 AM Brittany Rachelle What would make you want to be friends with them ... Aug 3 2006, 01:23 AM This Confession haha awe <3
I'm a naturally shy person. It... Aug 3 2006, 05:54 AM bonjour_x i used to be really shy around boys but then i sta... Aug 3 2006, 09:00 AM Jessica_Winchester I talk to guys basically like I would to a girl. O... Aug 3 2006, 06:22 PM pinayprincess for acting around guys: i act myself.. idc if they... Aug 3 2006, 07:27 PM just_rissa Just always tell yourself, "He's cool... ... Aug 3 2006, 10:27 PM one_and_only thanks for the advice! :]
ill try all this ou... Aug 4 2006, 12:40 AM Wo0yaPo0ya I have a lot of guy friends and I find it easier t... Aug 4 2006, 10:59 AM xbabyboo Don`t change..just be yourself..let things com... Aug 4 2006, 05:12 PM BrokenDream Just like you, I'm shy around guys. I only hav... Aug 5 2006, 08:14 AM |
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