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 Aug 2 2006, 04:23 PM
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i tried searching first..
when i meet a new guy its really hard for me to talk to them the same way i talk to a girl, even if im not attracted to them, at all. I have nothing to say and I cant be myself. Im shy in general, but with guys its worse. I want to be one of those girls with alot of guy friends, but i cant make it happen. im going to a new school next year, so i have a chance to make new friends. how you do act when you meet new people, guys especially. and any advice for me? |
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Aug 2 2006, 05:23 PM
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My problem is the opposite for you.
I get along with guys REALLLY easily. How? I don't know. Most of the guys that I find myself kicking it with are boys.Yes, I have tons of other girl friends but I feel more comfortable around guys. I think it's my personality. I don't know. Plus, they really help me with my boyfriend, boy whatever problems. I like to open up to them, it's easier cus they're boys & .. yeah. Girls, they CAN help but some girls just give you the wrong advice on purpose. Jealousy & lalalala. I just think it's easier to talk to guys about certain things. & they fool around and roast on each other knowing they're just kidding. That's JUSTTTT me though . --- I think you should stop thinking about it so much. Don't think about how they're boys & maybe you should talk to them like this & about this. Be comfortable because they can tell you feel uncomfortable & you might make them feel awkward. I mean, this can happen with girls too. |
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one_and_only becoming friends with guys Aug 2 2006, 04:23 PM
timeflies51 Be yourself. That's all I can say. You'll ... Aug 2 2006, 04:55 PM peggysturr Find similar interest between each other and expan... Aug 2 2006, 05:12 PM gigiopolis If you're shy, try to find people that you can... Aug 2 2006, 05:27 PM Quarantine. be yourself.
thats one key rule in that.
new schoo... Aug 2 2006, 06:39 PM msladyliberty Just be someone else. Don't be yourself.
j... Aug 2 2006, 07:04 PM one_and_only being "myself" means being all dorky, be... Aug 2 2006, 09:49 PM
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Smoogrish QUOTE(one_and_only @ Aug 2 2006, 10:49 PM... Aug 4 2006, 10:44 AM Youraisemeup Be yourself, they can take it or leave it. I'm... Aug 2 2006, 10:52 PM one_and_only yea people that are already my friends, im cool
bu... Aug 2 2006, 10:58 PM gigiopolis Screw people who can't appreciate someone who... Aug 2 2006, 11:29 PM monkieluver12 When I meet people I'm just myself and act the... Aug 3 2006, 01:01 AM vn cuti3 i agree with all these people just be yourself. so... Aug 3 2006, 01:07 AM Quarantine. i just realized, if they don't like your for b... Aug 3 2006, 01:15 AM Brittany Rachelle What would make you want to be friends with them ... Aug 3 2006, 01:23 AM This Confession haha awe <3
I'm a naturally shy person. It... Aug 3 2006, 05:54 AM bonjour_x i used to be really shy around boys but then i sta... Aug 3 2006, 09:00 AM Jessica_Winchester I talk to guys basically like I would to a girl. O... Aug 3 2006, 06:22 PM pinayprincess for acting around guys: i act myself.. idc if they... Aug 3 2006, 07:27 PM just_rissa Just always tell yourself, "He's cool... ... Aug 3 2006, 10:27 PM one_and_only thanks for the advice! :]
ill try all this ou... Aug 4 2006, 12:40 AM Wo0yaPo0ya I have a lot of guy friends and I find it easier t... Aug 4 2006, 10:59 AM xbabyboo Don`t change..just be yourself..let things com... Aug 4 2006, 05:12 PM BrokenDream Just like you, I'm shy around guys. I only hav... Aug 5 2006, 08:14 AM |
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