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What causes paranoia?
dorkk-ie
post Aug 1 2006, 08:52 PM
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What mainly causes someone to be really paranoid in a relationship...
and HOW DO U HELP YOURSELF/YOUR PARTNER become less paranoid...
 
 
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post Aug 2 2006, 09:06 AM
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Generally, it's a result of insecurity. The "cure" is simply stated but difficult to achieve. To stop being paranoid, you have to be content and happy with yourself. You have to embrace the idea that you're fine how you are, that people want to be your friends or significant other, and that, while you are open to change and personal improvement, overall you're a pretty good person.
 
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post Aug 2 2006, 03:18 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Aug 2 2006, 7:06 AM) *
Generally, it's a result of insecurity. The "cure" is simply stated but difficult to achieve. To stop being paranoid, you have to be content and happy with yourself. You have to embrace the idea that you're fine how you are, that people want to be your friends or significant other, and that, while you are open to change and personal improvement, overall you're a pretty good person.


how can i help him achieve that..?
he's scared of losing me.. i want him to understand there is no other guy out there for me right now. he's a really good boyfriend when it all comes down to it.. i wanna tell him that there is no body esle , and that i <3 him and only him... but what can i do when he dont believe me.... i dunno, i feel so hopeless =/
 

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dorkk-ie   What causes paranoia?   Aug 1 2006, 08:52 PM
This Confession   Just little things and your mind starts to wonder,...   Aug 1 2006, 08:57 PM
Uronacid   Hmmm.... I'm Josh by the way, well... WHAT I...   Aug 1 2006, 09:44 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   to me, if you care a lot about that person, you ge...   Aug 1 2006, 09:45 PM
lol lollipops   I think that it's caused by a lack of trust be...   Aug 1 2006, 10:10 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Aug 1 2006, 11:10 P...   Aug 1 2006, 10:20 PM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 1 2006, 11:20 PM) th...   Aug 1 2006, 10:42 PM
_sarcastic_   i think it's pretty much what Josh said. (i ca...   Aug 1 2006, 10:12 PM
one43s   all about the trust. you don't trust if you f...   Aug 1 2006, 10:47 PM
lol lollipops   ^ Thank you.   Aug 1 2006, 10:49 PM
one43s   QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Aug 1 2006, 11:49 P...   Aug 1 2006, 10:51 PM
Uronacid   you guys obviously arn't paranoid... for someo...   Aug 1 2006, 10:54 PM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 1 2006, 11:54 PM) yo...   Aug 1 2006, 10:56 PM
Uronacid   Alright, maybe you don't trust in people to be...   Aug 1 2006, 11:01 PM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 2 2006, 12:01 AM) Al...   Aug 1 2006, 11:17 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Aug 2 2006, 12:17 A...   Aug 1 2006, 11:23 PM
This Confession   paranoia is a delusion that someone will harm you ...   Aug 1 2006, 11:27 PM
dorkk-ie   are there some ways i can make a paranoid person w...   Aug 2 2006, 01:23 AM
mipadi   Generally, it's a result of insecurity. The ...   Aug 2 2006, 09:06 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(mipadi @ Aug 2 2006, 10:06 AM) Gene...   Aug 2 2006, 12:53 PM
dorkk-ie   QUOTE(mipadi @ Aug 2 2006, 7:06 AM) Gener...   Aug 2 2006, 03:18 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(dorkk-ie @ Aug 2 2006, 4:18 PM...   Aug 4 2006, 08:28 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(mipadi @ Aug 4 2006, 9:28 AM) Hm, g...   Aug 4 2006, 01:23 PM
This Confession   You always reasure him, don't ever quit. As lo...   Aug 2 2006, 03:25 PM
Uronacid   deffinitly, just be consistant....   Aug 2 2006, 05:57 PM
french_fries   I think insecurities in the relationship cause par...   Aug 4 2006, 02:22 AM
happinessx   Well, I'm paranoid about my my MSN and MySpace...   Aug 4 2006, 08:32 AM
This Confession   Lotte. Those are kind of just normal paranoia issu...   Aug 4 2006, 02:12 PM


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