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Do you like giving advice?, on relationships?
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post Jul 30 2006, 05:55 PM
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All my friends think I give the best advice and always come to me when they have problems, especially relationships. The ironic thing is that I never like giving out advice, but I do anyway. It's such an uneasy topic. I'm always afraid I'll give them wrong advice and ruin their love life, haha.

So, how do you feel when people come to you for advice on relationships?
 
 
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AngelinaTaylor
post Jul 31 2006, 11:10 AM
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I like giving advice. People always come to me because they know I'll tell them everything exactly as it is, without any sugarcoating.
 
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post Jul 31 2006, 11:30 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 12:10 PM) *
I like giving advice. People always come to me because they know I'll tell them everything exactly as it is, without any sugarcoating.


this is a good thing and alot of times people really need this, but sometimes I think you are too generic. Although you are telling the truth, people need answers that help them think about there problems, and help them fix them.

You can tell someone how it is, but if you don't help them fix the problem then nothing is solved... many times people already know the truth, and need help on where to go from there... At that piont a simple prophetic statement from you won't fix the problem...
 
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post Jul 31 2006, 02:27 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 12:30 PM) *
this is a good thing and alot of times people really need this, but sometimes I think you are too generic. Although you are telling the truth, people need answers that help them think about there problems, and help them fix them.

You can tell someone how it is, but if you don't help them fix the problem then nothing is solved... many times people already know the truth, and need help on where to go from there... At that piont a simple prophetic statement from you won't fix the problem...


And what makes you think I don't help them fix their problems? That's exactly what they want me to do, so I do it. I think you misinterpreted my post. I'm not one of those people who always say, "Oh, honey, it's going to be okay!" and leave it at that..
 

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iRock cB   Do you like giving advice?   Jul 30 2006, 05:55 PM
xbabyboo   I feel smart.ahahaha like I`m smart enough to ...   Jul 30 2006, 06:34 PM
RoseTRAX   Yea i feel smart too. It feels good to help the...   Jul 30 2006, 06:38 PM
peggysturr   I do. But it's usually more to friends because...   Jul 30 2006, 06:40 PM
iRock cB   Yeah, I mean I like it too. It feels good when you...   Jul 30 2006, 07:21 PM
cassjamminx   QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 30 2006, 5:21 PM) Ye...   Jul 30 2006, 08:21 PM
marzipan   hmmm, well i give advice to my friends a lot, so i...   Jul 30 2006, 07:25 PM
vn cuti3   are you kidding me i LOVE giving out advices. my f...   Jul 30 2006, 08:20 PM
femme_fatale4160   Well, since I'm "the experienced one,...   Jul 30 2006, 08:25 PM
This Confession   Mostly everyone I know comes to me for relationshi...   Jul 30 2006, 08:37 PM
helllla jankyyyy   No. I can barely give advice to myself. I mean, I...   Jul 30 2006, 08:46 PM
bE_witHoUt_yUh   i feel smart too especially wen the advice works o...   Jul 30 2006, 09:02 PM
lyin_in_wait   when they do come, i try to help them make the dec...   Jul 31 2006, 09:18 AM
Uronacid   I guess I have always given my friends relationshi...   Jul 31 2006, 11:08 AM
Angelina Taylor   I like giving advice. People always come to me bec...   Jul 31 2006, 11:10 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 12:1...   Jul 31 2006, 11:30 AM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 12:30 PM) t...   Jul 31 2006, 02:27 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 3:27...   Jul 31 2006, 02:29 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 3:29 PM) Ye...   Jul 31 2006, 02:33 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 3:29 PM) Ye...   Jul 31 2006, 02:44 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 3:44...   Jul 31 2006, 02:52 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 3:52 PM) al...   Jul 31 2006, 02:54 PM
Uronacid   sorry i edited my post.... ^look up >>   Jul 31 2006, 02:37 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   Im good at giving out advice.. All my friends are ...   Jul 31 2006, 02:53 PM
Uronacid   lol, XD.. I don't know what to tell you... xD   Jul 31 2006, 02:57 PM
Angelina Taylor   ^ Pray that I don't get fired? I don't kno...   Jul 31 2006, 03:00 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 4:00...   Jul 31 2006, 06:01 PM
RiC3xBoy   I love giving.......advice.   Jul 31 2006, 03:04 PM


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