Big Age Difference, real big |
 Jul 31 2006, 01:13 PM
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Anyways. I have this friend and she is going out with this guy. They have been going out for a year and on the outside they seem ok. There is a real big age difference though. This guy is 30 and she is 16. The guy still lives at home and works at target. The girl goes to high school and does the normal 16 year old stuff. He constantly tells her off and beats her mentally/physcially. He goes off telling her he is not her boyfriend anymore one day and then next day he comes over like nothing happened. She cannot leave him because she really loves him and she can't see leaving him. I try to help her and tell her to leave him constantly she will not listen to reason though. What do you think I should do to help? What would you do in her position? |
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Jul 31 2006, 01:31 PM
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QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Jul 31 2006, 11:24 AM)  do her parents know about this? he's old enough to be her father! that's disgusting. since you said that he mentally and physically abuses her, the best thing to do is to get help for her. even though she may believe that she really loves this guy, he's obviously no good. you don't want things to get worse. she's a 16-year-old girl and should be able to do teenager things without this dirtbag yelling at her. QUOTE(marzipan @ Jul 31 2006, 11:27 AM) ^ yeah, do her parents know about this? that's just not right....a 16 year old dating a 30 year old? she may say she loves him because she's scared of what he'll do to her if she wants to break up with him. since he's abusing her, maybe she's too scared to leave. I believe her parents know because he visits her house occasionally. I think she lied to them though about his age because he looks like a 20 year old and she constantly tells others that he is a younger age. Yeah my last resort is to seek help most likely even though she'll hate me for it. |
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dangjer Big Age Difference Jul 31 2006, 01:13 PM
xcaitlinx do her parents know about this? he's old enoug... Jul 31 2006, 01:24 PM marzipan ^ yeah, do her parents know about this?
that... Jul 31 2006, 01:27 PM shannonx1 ^yeah i agree with marzipan
if i were in her posi... Jul 31 2006, 01:32 PM dangjer Yeah your right she won't "hate" me ... Jul 31 2006, 01:39 PM Uronacid Um... well, if you want you could tell her parents... Jul 31 2006, 02:20 PM Angelina Taylor Lock her at home for life and tell her parents. I ... Jul 31 2006, 02:23 PM
Uronacid QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 3:23... Jul 31 2006, 02:36 PM Kathleen If he beats her and whatnot, can't he get arre... Jul 31 2006, 02:24 PM femme_fatale4160 This is serious, man. You need to tell her parent... Jul 31 2006, 02:39 PM xbabyboo Woah..tell someone..tell an adult or something..so... Jul 31 2006, 09:04 PM Freaky Krazer wtf she better not think she's in love. How is... Jul 31 2006, 09:26 PM pinayprincess that happened to my ex-bestfriend... explains why ... Jul 31 2006, 09:59 PM nyctophiliac wow that's so scary
like other people have sai... Jul 31 2006, 10:08 PM Gypsy Eyes Call the cops, don't even tell her. Just call ... Jul 31 2006, 10:40 PM one_and_only QUOTEThe guy still lives at home and works at targ... Jul 31 2006, 11:03 PM aRiiaNa girl what you need to do is notify her parents and... Jul 31 2006, 11:18 PM disco infiltrator Wow, that's kind of ironic. I have a good frie... Jul 31 2006, 11:28 PM priyas thats illegal first of all. she has to be 18 to da... Aug 1 2006, 01:11 AM Quarantine. isn't that illigeal anyways?
tell her pare... Aug 1 2006, 01:37 AM n00b wow what a nut job.
He sounds like a hobo.
I wou... Aug 1 2006, 02:14 AM lolita kitty That reminds me of this article I read in seventee... Aug 1 2006, 03:37 AM dangjer Thanks everyone for the advice I have told her par... Aug 1 2006, 11:05 AM Born in a burial gown I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 31, I don't thi... Aug 1 2006, 11:16 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Love is love age dosen't matter in my mind. Aug 1 2006, 04:05 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Aug 1 2006, 5:0... Aug 1 2006, 08:46 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 1 2006, 9:46 ... Aug 1 2006, 11:04 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 2 2006, 12:04 AM) um... Aug 28 2006, 03:03 PM Uronacid you are an awsome friend Aug 1 2006, 04:28 PM instantmusic This guy has no respect for himself, and has no re... Aug 1 2006, 06:13 PM just_rissa I think that's just wrong. If they do it that... Aug 1 2006, 06:47 PM Uronacid QUOTE(just_rissa @ Aug 1 2006, 7:47 PM) I... Aug 1 2006, 07:20 PM lol lollipops QUOTE(just_rissa @ Aug 1 2006, 7:47 PM) I... Aug 1 2006, 10:02 PM one43s the older the better, sometimes. Aug 1 2006, 10:48 PM This Confession Eh I'm not going to quote any of the other rep... Aug 1 2006, 11:14 PM soo x nyc x QUOTE(dangjer @ Jul 31 2006, 2:13 PM) He ... Aug 28 2006, 02:01 PM Zatanna QUOTE(Born in a burial gown @ Aug 1 2006, 12... Aug 28 2006, 02:23 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(dangjer @ Jul 31 2006, 2:13 PM) Wow... Aug 28 2006, 02:54 PM Tamacracker You guys don't find it a little "too... Aug 28 2006, 04:09 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Aug 28 2006, 5:09 PM)... Aug 28 2006, 06:36 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 28 2006, 7:36... Aug 28 2006, 08:30 PM Zatanna QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Aug 28 2006, 5:09 PM)... Aug 28 2006, 06:44 PM Angelina Taylor ^ But you're a grown-up :P Aug 28 2006, 07:10 PM Angelina Taylor ^ I'm glad Aug 28 2006, 09:14 PM L!ckitySplit nah, the 30 year old dude just knows how to keep h... Aug 28 2006, 10:46 PM Mahokaida Tell your parents and ask for advice. Most likely ... Aug 28 2006, 10:55 PM |
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