I am so confused its not even funny. |
I am so confused its not even funny. |
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Ok, This is not spam to start out with..
![]() Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out 10 months on August 6. (Holy shit 10 months..) Tonight we got to talking and we both brought up sex.. STAY WITH ME.. ok, me... I kinda wanna get married but..thats a sorta.. I DO NOT WANT KIDS.. Him, He dosent wanna get married and he dosen't want kids eather.. ANYWAY.. I start talking to him how I wanna wait to have sex till im married.. <-- Lie.. -_- I wanted to see what he would do. He got really frushtrated and got pissed and he said.. " YOU KNOW THAT I DONT WANNA GET MARRIED!" Right there and then he was about to dump me right on the spot. Then I told him that I wanted to see what he would do if I do so.. H was like.. " Did it help any? " Right now I really dont know.. it kind of bothers me how he would dump me just like that.. I that to me would have felt liek a big waste of time. I really to love him and care about him alot.. He understands that I wont have sex right now with him because I am going in to the 10th grade.. I JUST AM SO CONFUSED Advice.. Please help ![]() |
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I agree with you to a certian extent, but... you can learn about yourself in more ways than just dating... and I don't think about it in that much of a serious way. Ugh, just the word marriage is kind of scarey when you are in a relationship... It almost makes you sound crazy, but at the same time it is what dating is designed for... I mean, to see what you are looking for in a future partner. There isn't any piont in geting attached if you are just doing it for fun. This girl is attached to someone who doesn't want to get married... I just think that doesn't make any sense.. there is no future there... why get attatchd?
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