I am so confused its not even funny. |
 Jul 28 2006, 08:33 PM
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Ok, This is not spam to start out with..
 Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out 10 months on August 6. (Holy shit 10 months..) Tonight we got to talking and we both brought up sex.. STAY WITH ME.. ok, me... I kinda wanna get married but..thats a sorta.. I DO NOT WANT KIDS.. Him, He dosent wanna get married and he dosen't want kids eather.. ANYWAY.. I start talking to him how I wanna wait to have sex till im married.. <-- Lie.. -_- I wanted to see what he would do. He got really frushtrated and got pissed and he said.. " YOU KNOW THAT I DONT WANNA GET MARRIED!" Right there and then he was about to dump me right on the spot. Then I told him that I wanted to see what he would do if I do so.. H was like.. " Did it help any? " Right now I really dont know.. it kind of bothers me how he would dump me just like that.. I that to me would have felt liek a big waste of time. I really to love him and care about him alot.. He understands that I wont have sex right now with him because I am going in to the 10th grade.. I JUST AM SO CONFUSED Advice.. Please help 
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| *mipadi* |
Jul 31 2006, 12:18 PM
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I don't think most fifteen-year-olds are thinking about marriage. It's highly unlikely that a fifteen-year-old is going to get married anytime soon. The point of dating isn't always to get married; sometimes it's to have fun, especially when you're not nearly old enough for the commitment that marriage requires. Dating during the teen years is not about marriage; the idea is to learn about yourself, and to learn how to deal with relationships.
Sex should be discussed, yes, but there's no need to trick the other person into giving an answer, or to talk about it in terms of marriage. Don't want to have sex? Then just say you're not ready. There's no need to give a justification for it, especially not in regards to waiting until marriage or not wanting kids. If the other person can't handle that, too bad. |
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oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo I am so confused its not even funny. Jul 28 2006, 08:33 PM
marzipan right. you're in the 10th grade. i'd think... Jul 28 2006, 08:37 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(marzipan @ Jul 28 2006, 9:37 PM) so... Jul 28 2006, 08:45 PM Love-sucks I used to talk with my ex about sex too. We talked... Jul 28 2006, 08:40 PM GreatBigBallsOfFire QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Jul 28 2006, 9... Jul 28 2006, 08:52 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(GreatBigBallsOfFire @ Jul 28 2006, 9... Jul 28 2006, 08:54 PM This Confession look
If anyone in a relationship ever tries to ch... Jul 28 2006, 09:02 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 28 2006, 10:0... Jul 28 2006, 09:11 PM Chii I don't see why you're confused. You lied ... Jul 28 2006, 09:08 PM This Confession Pshhh
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Even if you lied to him
if your not com... Jul 28 2006, 09:14 PM Chii Ugg, I was still editing. I'm so slow.
Just b... Jul 28 2006, 09:17 PM This Confession ^agree
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Have you ever a... Jul 28 2006, 09:26 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Yeah.. I kinda relized that.. -_-
Now what do I d... Jul 28 2006, 11:34 PM This Confession Just call him and talk to him about it.
Tell him y... Jul 28 2006, 11:42 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 29 2006, 12:4... Jul 29 2006, 11:27 AM xbabyboo He should respect your thoughts..he can`t just... Jul 29 2006, 03:30 PM femme_fatale4160 OMG...tenth grade?! WAYYYYYY too young. If y... Jul 29 2006, 03:33 PM Uronacid Yeah, what everyone else siad... you shouldn't... Jul 29 2006, 08:53 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo You people sound like he is useing me.. We are wai... Jul 30 2006, 05:10 PM mipadi I don't mean to be a wet blanket, but come on,... Jul 31 2006, 09:51 AM Uronacid QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 31 2006, 10:51 AM) I d... Jul 31 2006, 11:00 AM short_dark_hair QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 31 2006, 9:51 AM) Shou... Aug 2 2006, 10:48 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(short_dark_hair @ Aug 2 2006, 11:48... Aug 2 2006, 11:14 AM Angelina Taylor ^ You really think all teenagers KNOW whether they... Jul 31 2006, 11:04 AM Uronacid QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 12:0... Jul 31 2006, 11:13 AM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 12:13 PM) Y... Jul 31 2006, 11:16 AM Uronacid QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 31 2006, 12:1... Jul 31 2006, 11:24 AM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 31 2006, 1:18 PM) I do... Jul 31 2006, 02:32 PM Uronacid I agree with you to a certian extent, but... you c... Jul 31 2006, 01:03 PM Uronacid hmmmm... your right.... about that, maybe I havn... Jul 31 2006, 03:13 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo You people are thinking "Shes so young and sh... Jul 31 2006, 03:13 PM Uronacid you guys changed my opinions of dating... hmmm....... Jul 31 2006, 03:57 PM mipadi QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 4:57 PM) yo... Jul 31 2006, 05:41 PM Freaky Krazer Shelby, your ideas would change as you guys grow u... Jul 31 2006, 06:52 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 31 2006, 7:52 P... Aug 1 2006, 11:43 AM femme_fatale4160 ^Ditto. Jul 31 2006, 06:55 PM Preeti [/i]
This is not to hurt you. This relationship i... Aug 1 2006, 05:23 AM Freaky Krazer ^Nice answer. and yes I'm sorry for... pretend... Aug 1 2006, 02:22 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Aug 1 2006, 3:22 PM... Aug 1 2006, 02:35 PM This Confession well I think you'll make the right choice. I d... Aug 1 2006, 03:00 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(This Confession @ Aug 1 2006, 4:00 ... Aug 1 2006, 03:03 PM This Confession ah
I'm sure that will be nice
have tons of fu... Aug 1 2006, 03:26 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(This Confession @ Aug 1 2006, 4:26 ... Aug 1 2006, 04:03 PM iRock cB Ok, if he gets angry and dumps you because you don... Aug 3 2006, 05:25 PM |
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