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i got dumped
anchondo25
post Jul 27 2006, 04:25 AM
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sad to say the other day my girl of 2 yearz and 3 days left me for a nother dood? wtf
she said that she was gettin tired of me bein to controlling and not letting her talk to a bunch of guy wich r her friends , iono i guess i didnt want to loose her:( m i rong?
 
 
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post Jul 29 2006, 09:12 PM
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The more I think about the big picture here's what i think:

If you truley are being controlling:

-you need to learn to back off a little bit
-jealousy is the one thing that will turn you into a control freak
-you need to realize that she choose you becuase she liked you... se could have choosen all those other guys

If you weren't being a control freak:

-don't take it to heart, maybe she just wanted to get away from you, so she used it as an excuse
-don't become so careless in future relationships that your partner feels like you don't care.
-don't becuase someone who avoids conflict just becuase youare afriad of "controlling someone"

Some extra stuffs:

-sometimes people need to be told off, and sometimes they don't... I mean, if your girlfriend started smoking or something, and you couldn't handle that... yeah, thats probably something you should say something about... her guy friends are completely disrespecting her body and it bothers you... yeah, thats probably something you should say something about... I remmber one time this guy kept touching my ex-g/f's leg, and she got mad at me for getting mad about it (I yelled at her for letting him doit... she was too it was pretty lame) ... she said I was being tooo controlling, and that I should have just let it slide... >.> forget that...
 

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anchondo25   i got dumped   Jul 27 2006, 04:25 AM
lidoxangie   ---------   Jul 27 2006, 04:35 AM
icy_wonderland   Probably all you can do now is just move on   Jul 27 2006, 05:03 AM
Uronacid   Yeah, something very similar happened to me... Exe...   Jul 27 2006, 10:56 AM
dangjer   All you can do is move on and seek bigger and bett...   Jul 27 2006, 11:06 AM
Uronacid   ^yeah, thats what I meant   Jul 27 2006, 11:24 AM
airam   lol   Jul 27 2006, 11:34 AM
BrokenDream   QUOTE(airam @ Jul 27 2006, 11:34 AM) lol ...   Jul 29 2006, 05:57 PM
xCrys   You kept her from her guy friends? That's a no...   Jul 27 2006, 03:11 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   and hopefully, the mistake doesnt repeat.   Jul 27 2006, 07:18 PM
I_Heart_Blink   that sucks so bad... i couldn't imagine being ...   Jul 27 2006, 08:36 PM
This Confession   well i suppose if your really controlling and you ...   Jul 27 2006, 09:26 PM
crazeegirl411   QUOTE(airam @ Jul 27 2006, 9:34 AM) lol H...   Jul 27 2006, 09:29 PM
peggysturr   Make sure you don't limit your next one's ...   Jul 27 2006, 09:30 PM
vn cuti3   all u can do now is move on   Jul 27 2006, 10:36 PM
pinayprincess   ouch   Jul 27 2006, 11:31 PM
anchondo25   wow thanks for all the advice and help and i thoug...   Jul 28 2006, 12:45 AM
xCrys   Yeah it is ^ But don't be soo selfish and con...   Jul 28 2006, 03:28 AM
dispn0ygonekrazy   dayum bro i know alot of people say this but shoot...   Jul 28 2006, 04:02 AM
one43s   i feel your pain man. i was a control freak but i ...   Jul 28 2006, 10:15 AM
da_SALSA   join the club dude! but don't worry, you...   Jul 28 2006, 11:44 AM
baby_in_blue   move on. my best advice.   Jul 28 2006, 02:31 PM
xbabyboo   Yeah moving on is the best.You`ll feel better ...   Jul 29 2006, 03:39 PM
Uronacid   The more I think about the big picture here's ...   Jul 29 2006, 09:12 PM


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