I am so confused its not even funny. |
I am so confused its not even funny. |
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Ok, This is not spam to start out with..
![]() Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out 10 months on August 6. (Holy shit 10 months..) Tonight we got to talking and we both brought up sex.. STAY WITH ME.. ok, me... I kinda wanna get married but..thats a sorta.. I DO NOT WANT KIDS.. Him, He dosent wanna get married and he dosen't want kids eather.. ANYWAY.. I start talking to him how I wanna wait to have sex till im married.. <-- Lie.. -_- I wanted to see what he would do. He got really frushtrated and got pissed and he said.. " YOU KNOW THAT I DONT WANNA GET MARRIED!" Right there and then he was about to dump me right on the spot. Then I told him that I wanted to see what he would do if I do so.. H was like.. " Did it help any? " Right now I really dont know.. it kind of bothers me how he would dump me just like that.. I that to me would have felt liek a big waste of time. I really to love him and care about him alot.. He understands that I wont have sex right now with him because I am going in to the 10th grade.. I JUST AM SO CONFUSED Advice.. Please help ![]() |
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
Ugg, I was still editing. I'm so slow.
Just because he doesn't want to get married doesn't mean that he doesn't want a commitment or that he wants to pursue a player lifestyle or some other thing. Maybe he thinks that marriage is just played out or maybe he wants him and his future wife to be together because they genuinely want to, not because they're bound by a marriage license. Yeah, love is powerful but lies and deception weaken it. I don't think that he thought it was very nice to have his honesty used against him as a test. I might have dumped you on the spot too. |
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