Romance in the workplace Options

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Hmmmm... I am aware I'm probably an old fogie in comparison to the rest of the members here and most of you won't have the slightest clue what to tell me so eh, I guess I'll just be sharing...


I HAVE THE HOTS FOR MY BOSS. Absolute hottie, probably a lot older than me, maybe in his upper 20's, but that's within my range! Think Ben Affleck. Hunky, fit, great teeth, and a goofy yet charming personality. Gotta love older men.

Anyhow, I've been working at this IT firm as an intern for about 2 months now but it was only meant to be temporary to fulfill a school requirement. But I had been crushing on him since the first day I. Anyhow, today was suppossed to be my last day, and I've hardly talked to him at all except this one time he was telling me about some Asian woman he had dated in the past whose family ran this sub place... anywho, he calls me into his office this morning as I'm coming in for a chat. This was definately the 2nd time he's mentioned dating an Asian woman, this time however, he mentions she's filipino. And he proceeds to ask me which part I'm from and whatnot. Next thing I know, we're having this 30 minute conversation about travel, and Dave & Busters, and casinos. Then he offers me a permanent position with the company saying that they'd love to keep me around and that I've been helpful and whatnot. And he winks at me. *swoon*

I dunno, maybe I'm reading him wrong, I'm usually very bad at reading men anyway, but could he be interested? I mean, why all the talk about Asian women? And the immediate job offer was unexpected.

It would suck to leave now, especially since something *may* spark, who knows. But honestly, I didn't even like this job that much so I don't know if I would want to return. Haha, it's not even that serious. I'm probably not coming back. And it's not like these romances work within the office anyhow. Maybe I'll just keep in touch after I leave.

But still, my boss is hot.



So uhhh... to promote interaction in this thread, do any of you have stories to share about having the hots for your boss... or someone you work with?

[Zachy-Poo]

yeah, that's toughy. i'd say go
for it if there's a connection. just make
sure he's not a a-hole and fires you for something
stupid if it doesn't work out.

i went to a bar with my supervisor
and drank my butt off. she had to bring
me home, and in the car i was like...yeah.

damn, i felt akward as heck the next day at work.

hopefully it wont cause anything
negative in the work place and in friendship.


good luck.