scared of lovin..., wat to do... Options

[simply_mehehe]

i've been with my boi for like a month now and i'm gettin this feeling that i'm falling for him, but every time i think of it i wtart to want to cry or i do cry cause of my last relationship then i try and convince my self to the point where i say i only like him, .............so ......... i wanna be fair to my boi but i'm just too scared from all the pain i got last time (told me he loved me but didn't really, was just a rebound girl )...............any advice for one scared lil person?

[x_perplexity]

i've been there before. the feels sucks. my first real boyfriend i fell hard. and yeah, he cheated on me. i convinced myself it was because we went to different schools and its just a strain on the whole "relationship." so after him, i think i fell in love with love. and i went out with some other dude. but then i realized that i still thought about and loved my first boyfriend. so i broke up with my "rebound" guy.

i think you should just let ur current boyfriend go if ur still in love or like with another person. you're just lying to yourself and ur current boyfriend by staying in a dead relationship.

i hope that all made sense. hope everything works out okay.