Summer fling, How to take it past that? |
 Jul 26 2006, 05:23 PM
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Okay, so I've been going out with a guy that I've been pretty good friends with for almost a year, and I've basically liked him since then. We just started going out with eachother last week, and we've kissed/made-out, whatever.
So, I personally like him A LOT, and as I said, have for a long time. How do I tell him that I want something more than just a summer fling without pressuring him, in case he thinks of us just a summer thing? He asked me out and everything, I'm just wondering how to take it past just a summer thing.  EDIT// We go to the same school & we have pretty much all the same friends, if that changes anything. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jul 27 2006, 11:15 AM
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Alright, I'll tell you what to do, but pull it off in your own way. I don't know your boyfriend like you do so I could never tell you exactly what to say....
Get him on a free day. One where you two are just enjoying eachother, and wait till you're haveing on of those conversations where it's just you and him. Make sure you just stay comfortable the whole day... seriously, jsut ave fun with him the whole day. When that period comes.. start telling him how you feel. Act like you really want to tell him something (becuase you do), and that you are scared to tell him (becuase you are)... Then after he bugs you a little bit tell him what youare afraid of... Tell him you really like him alot, that you are afraid that this is just a summer fling, and becuase the summer is comming to an end that you are sad becuase you're going to miss him. You sound like you want me to give you something to say to him that won't let him know that you care so that he won't be pressured by the truth... Um.... that's not going to happen... either way you have to let him know that you care, becuase thats the truth. |
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bballchick1 Summer fling Jul 26 2006, 05:23 PM
Uronacid Erf... you agreed to a summer fling? Well, all I c... Jul 26 2006, 05:52 PM bballchick1 No, I didn't agree to a summer fling.
I just ... Jul 26 2006, 05:55 PM aubbob. do you see him alot? like everyday? go to the same... Jul 26 2006, 05:57 PM smallsXalmighty i live summer flings they are fun..bu t i am in a ... Jul 26 2006, 06:00 PM one_and_only yea if it lasts through the summer, and you go to ... Jul 26 2006, 06:01 PM vn cuti3 erm.............talk to him??? Jul 26 2006, 06:16 PM bballchick1 ^ Yeah, but what exactly should I say? Jul 26 2006, 06:23 PM Uronacid Well, then just be honest with him thats all... go... Jul 26 2006, 06:24 PM bballchick1 What would I say without pressuring him in case he... Jul 26 2006, 06:27 PM
bballchick1 QUOTEAlright, I'll tell you what to do, but pu... Jul 27 2006, 01:53 PM |
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