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[bballchick1]

I hope this isn't too long because I usually hate reading really long posts, but I was wondering what you guys think.

Okay, so I'm really confused right now about this guy. I've been good friends with him since last October, and I've pretty much liked him as more than friends since then. I'm 15 in October, and he's 15 right now (his birthday's in may).

What happened was on Wednesday night him, one of my friends, and a few other guys showed up at my house, and they were telling me to come out and hang out with them for a while, so I did. We ended up walking alone together, and my friend told me that she thought that he liked me and that he was showing a lot of interest. So he and I talked together for like, half an hour when we all went to the park, and then we all left and went to my friends house.

When we all said goodbye, I went home and went on MSN. He was online and started talking to me, and eventually asked me out, so we went out the next day (thursday). We spent pretty much the whole day alone together, from 1:30 to 5:00, and we kissed twice during that time, then we met up with a couple other of our friends and were hanging out in a group until 11:00 that night. We all went back to his house and watched a movie and I was lying next to him and he held my hand, whatever.

We did pretty much the same thing the next day (friday), and went to the movie theater, and he and I made out. Just the thing is, he doesn't hold my hand or anything when we're just walking together. I mean, sometimes he'll slow down and like put his hands on my head or whatever (he's pretty tall, 6'3" and I'm 5'5"), but he never holds my hands.

Now I have no idea what's going on with him, because he was away over the weekend on a soccer tournament, so I told him I'd call him on Monday, but instead we talked on MSN on Sunday night. I asked him what he was doing during the week and he said that he was going to look for a job, and didn't mention anything about us doing anything together.

My friend said that he usually does give off mixed messages, but it's really annoying me since I've liked him for so long, so I really want things to work out between us.

So pretty much my question is, what do you guys think I should do/say to him and am I overreacting about something that's not as big as a problem as I think it is?

Thank you!

[OhMyAnniee]

i would ask him to hang out again. like go watch a movie or something.. with friends. if he asks why tell him because he's a cool guy to hang out with and you guys always have so much fun. another thing i'd try is to ask him what he considers you two. my friend did that with this guy and now their officially a couple. but don't put too much pressure on him because he might start thinking you wanna go into a serious relationship and it might freak him out. but anyways, you two sound really cute together!