how do you know if its love? Options

[xEat a VeganX]

ive liked this guy for over 3 monthes, he has no idea. he makes me laugh and when im around him im happy. it doesnt feel like just a crush.. but maybe it is. do i like this guy, or love him?

[liSSa_x0]

like.


it doesn't make sense when people say they 'love' someone in such a short period of time.


it's like everybody abuses the meaning of love. it's weird...and unpleasant. too common. like, someone 'loves' their boyfriend/girlfriend one day.


next day, they break up, and poof, next week, they don't 'love' each other.


real love isn't like that, right?

i agree. i know all these people and they have new bf/gfs like every few weeks, and with everyone it's like '*name* ilyssssfmm' and it's like they love every one of them. they say you only fall in love once. i think that's kind of bending it a bit...

but really, how long does it take to actually call it love? i went out with this guy for 5 months, and, yeah, i said i loved him. but did i really? i don't know. but there's this other guy, and i've liked him for a lil over 14 months now. i've never gone out with him. he's never liked me (to my knowledge). he had a gf for like a year. and still i like him. i've thought that i stopped liking him like three times...but it just keeps comming back. i even liked someone else at one point (my ex). but i think i always still liked this guy deep down.

what do you think?