So We all mess up right?, who dosn't? but it always feels like your the only one who went wr Options

[felicity*aka*fe]

I must admit i always thought people who posted stuff complaining about their relationship problems to a bunch of strangers was pathetic and just a way of avoiding facing the real problem. I dunno how to face my problem....how unusual.

Last year i was "liked" this guy...a lot....it was not healthy and he wasn't intereted in any way. It took me a year to go through liking and getting over him which is dumb considering this is high school....i thought i loved him which i laugh at now.

but i got over it....or so i thought. another year later im back...yet its a bit more complicated. One night him and some other friends came over and we ended up hooking up and a week later he told me he wanted more than a hook-up....i was shocked....i had assumed itd b a 1 time thing but i was glad he wanted more at the same time....i started liking him again. Both of us said we didn'thave time for a full relationship with school and everything else we have to do but we didn't want "f**k buddys" either so we came to a middle ground of being exclusive pretty much.

So when school ended we hung out a few times in the first week of summer and i decided that i was falling hard for him again and i needed a relationship if i was to keep it up. I gave him an ultimatum and he said he didn't want a relationship. He said he cared a lot about me...that he "liked me"(i hate saying like it isn't the right word) yet in another conversation he said it was all physical and he kept flipping around.

Now, almost time to go back to school for my senior yr, and im still stuck on him...and i have no idea wat he wants. It has wrecked my entire summer and i turned down plenty of great guys cuz of it. How do i either get him back or get over him? I know i just need to let it go...

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

if you know you need to let him go then just get over him! i mean from what i read he does not seem sure if he likes you back you are totally in love with him but hes not with you or else he would not leave you hanging for such a long time just to get an answer from him. i know its hard because i was in LOVE with a guy for a year but he didnt like me back. i got over him and started talkin to other guys. you need to give other guys a chance and go out with guys that like you and appreciate you.

oh yea we are not just strangers but strangers who want to help you =]


GOOD LUCK

and dont stay in the past move on. its unhealthy BELIEVE ME =D