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[ariana8716]

okay, i know i have already made a topic about telling a guy you like him & everything.
well before i totally just tell him, i wanted to type out all the things he has done to make me think he likes me,and i was just wondering if i could get an opinion if you think he likes me or not..but if this is like the same thing as my other topics..then close it i guess..i don't think it is though but whatever.

First offf,if you don't like reading about a girl's problem of figuring out if a boy likes her or not and not wanting to give her advice then i suggestt you just go back because that's what this whole thing is,& don't leave a reply saying something really mean because i warned you in the first place not to read this because of the reasons i listed up there^^

ok so here's my little paragraph or two. :)

Okay,for the past about two years I have had the biggest crush on my friend. There has been a lot of signs that
he likes me,but I am a very shy person,and I haven't been able to straight out tell him I like him. He has told one of my best friends he likes me a lot,but he told her he didn't want to tell anyone else..and this was in February. He also told her another time I was really pretty,and a good horse rider. He always stairs at me,and always trys to get me to chance him around sometimes[pretty lame for a 14 year old..i know.].About two weeks later,after he told my best friend he liked me a lot, I ran into this girl name Lorrie whos friend's with a few of my friends who goes to school with him online. They aren't really so called "friends" at all, but I started talking to her and told her I liked him,and then the next day she asked him if he liked me,and she told me he said he doesn't like me,and he isn't changing his mind.she also said he said this while he was sharping a pencil and didn't look her in the eyes or anything. Do you think he might of been too shy to tell Lorrie the truth because he doesnt know her that welll??Because he told my best friend and they've been friends for about 4 years or so.

kay & to make it easyy i made this good // bad list of things he's done to make me think he likes me and some that kinda doesn't but here it goes. :)

G00D::
+He wanted me to double ride his horse with him
+I was on .tha elavator in Panama City with him and as he left he was looking at me
+He would call me Troi,and then run off trying to get me to chase him.
+When he lined up at the horse show in Tallassee he looked straight at me
+In Tallassee we kept looking back and forth at each other.
+Nena told me he was stairing at me when I wasn't looking.
+He played football with me without me asking.
+When we we're playing football I would always throw it over the fence,and even though he got tired of it he kept going and getting it.
+He hit me purposely in the face with the ball to chase him and he like ran for 5 minutes and we would just sit there and chase it other.
+He hit me in the butt with the ball and put his hand over his mouth,and then I started chasing him for that,and he ran back to his trailer.(probably embarassed for hitting me there.)
+While we were playing football everytime I talked to him he was looking me right in the eyes.
+As I left he was stairing at me.
+He played basketball at his barn,and was stairing at me.
+He pulled up a chair near me.
+He was sitting there by the horse's door waiting for me to look at him,and he waved to me without me saying 'bye' or anything.
+He got my phone and started pretendly taking pictures of me.
+While I was riding he went behind Landon and said 'take a picture of her,she's a good rider,and I think she's kinda pretty but don't tell her!'
+My Dad took a video of me riding,and I was watching it and Jaron was near and he was like 'let me see' and I was like 'No' and he was like 'pleaseeeee let me see!' so I let him and he watched it for like 5 minutes.
+We watched a video of my Mom riding,and Jaron was watching too and he would look up att me and then I would look at him then he would look down,then look back up,and then I smiled at him,and we smiled at each other for a second.
+He tryed to shoot a rubberband at me,and I was like 'No!' and then he chased me with it.
+He ran in his Dad's car and he was like 'come here' and I was like 'ok' and he rolled down the window and kept looking up at me while he was making something.
+He shot me in the butt with a rubberband.
+While Jaron was chasing me and he left for a second his Dad was there and he was like 'That's how Jaron show's his effection for you.
+He acted like he was going to run over me with his 4 wheeler.
+He walked by me and pretended to hit me in the face.
+He staired at me the WHOLE time at my party.
+I would skate near him at my party and he would stair at me passing.
+I handed him his armband,and he just put his arm out on the table for me to put it on.
+While I was talking to my Dad, he like ran up and put his hand in my face and was like 'bye!'.
+I was sitting on this box thing and he was riding his horse,and when he was done he pulled him like all the way almost on top of me.
+His dad said 'That's what boys do when they like you'.
+We played darts,and he kept throwing them at my feet and like laughing..[you know in the flirting way]
+He asked me If I wanted to ride the 4wheeler with him
+He drove his 4wheeler up to me and he goes 'cmon' and I go 'uhhhhh' and he was like 'jus cmon' and again I was like 'nooo im too scared' and he was like 'ariana cmon please I promise I won't scare you or anything!' & repeated that line about 10 times,and he was like 'let me drive you around at least once!' and I was like 'uhhhh' and then he kept begging me for like 20 minutes.
+When his brother said that we could stay in sight,Landon said that he made his eyes big and put his head forward like 'shutup Tripp'
+Jaron had to go drag the arena but he told me 'Okay,but after you are riding.'
+He started begging me again.
+Hugh said 'Ariana he wants you to hold on to him' and he said 'nu-uhh' in the little embarassed voice.
+I got on his wheeler and we started going and then he was like 'You might want to scoot up cus your shirt is going to get muddy ' and he patted the seat so I was like so.. and then he was like cmon scoot up cus your shirt is gana get dirty and you might fall offff.. and so i scooted up and then he started going really fast,(I think to try and get me to hold on to him.)
+I wasn't hungry when he came over and he told me I needed to start eating.
+We played tennis ball in the house,and he would look at me, and I would look at him..that repeated about a gazillion times,and we would smile at each other.
+He told Landon he really liked me a lot and he had to tell someone so he told her.
+He looked at me and like waved his hand over my head.
+He talked to me without me saying anything after not seeing each other for 4 months.
+When he walks by me he shakes his hair
+When he walked by another time he took out his cell and acted like he was messing with it in front of me.
+He walked by again and he walked by and then right before he lost glance of me he looked at me

( some of my reasons for him thinking he likes me is lame,but if you knew him you would understand why those little things turn into a reason.

BAD::

+When these guys asked me to play football with them,I didn't want to play alone so I yelled his name to come over there,and he shook his head no.
+He doesn't always stay around me when I'm there.
+He told this girl he doesn't know very well that he didn't like me when she asked.
+He told me to stop texting him when i sent him like one text message.

i know i have WAY more goods than bads,but i mean maybe i'm taking every little thing to think he likes me..so i want an opnion from everyone here. :)


AND SORRRRY for this being so long.
it takes a lottt to get your story all out for people to understand.

Thanks so much!

[seremela_culnamo]

I really wish I have something good and useful to say, but I don't. The thing is, I think he likes you. Yet again, you might be going through what I went through for the past nine months. Instead of telling others though, he never gave me a straight answer. Well he might have talked to others about it, but he has a different group of friends and for the fact that my friends don't really like him in general, especially when he started messing me up so bad.

Have you confronted him yet? If you haven't and planning to, make sure he is not caught off guard. If he wants to talk to you about it, then that's good. Make sure that you get the direct answer from him whether or not he likes you.

I think it’s really sweet with what’s going on between you two, though =] It brought back memories of myself when I was crushing hard on my friend. Like we had our moments and obviously the bad ones, too. The good ones were like: going to the movies & dinner [my friends planned it], walking me home after a week of knowing me [i was depressed & told him to go away, but he wouldn’t], getting into this fight with his friend ‘cause the dude was pushing & teasing me [within 5 minutes of talking to him for the very first time], helping me get rid of my stalker [he crushed my stalker a lot for following me and liking me], forcing me to share his drinks [nah, i only do that with my good friends and i’m just too shy around him], scaring me by slightly pushing me around on slippery ice [thank goodness he caught me everytime], sometimes just giving me hugs [in which i pretend it’s nothing. like after the ice slipping], or simply taking my hands in his in the middle of class, and warming them up [the best was when we were filming a movie and we had no parts, so we stood outside waiting. actually, i was too shy to be stuck inside with him, so i ran out in shyness without my coat and only my pjs on. he came after me and hugged me up close from behind, while warming up my hands with his and bending down to talk quietly next to me]. Those were the good moments, but, it makes me want to cry all over again. He hurt me way too much for giving me hope and saying stuff that he shouldn’t have said, due to the assumptions he made. We both had our faults and whatnot, too.

Whoops. Sorry for ranting it out again. There’s more, but I think I should stop because I'm never going to see him again.

But most of all, just don't live in denial or anything like that. & don't be scared. I was and that's what screwed up me even more. If it doesn't go well, remember that there are many guys out there. Even if he may seem like the only one, don't worry, there are many. I have gotten over the idiot [despite the =[ when i think about it], but I realize that there are other guys out there who's cool & is willing to go out with me. Not that I want to go out with them. Lol. Anywho, I'm just making the point that don't always focus on one person. If things change or you find out that he just couldn't make up his mind, don't shun the rest of the guys out.

I'm sorry if my reply sounds negative. Since I don't know what to say, I'm just trying to guide you in the right way with some examples and whatnot.