First Kiss, First boyfriendd., err...what?!?! |
 Jul 21 2006, 05:44 PM
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ChiNk  Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,138  |
 Have you noticed that "kids" or should I say, "pre-teens", seem to rush into things, like, for example, the first kiss, their first love, etc.Well, most of my friends have already had the first kiss, I haven't. Most of my friends either WANT a boyfriend, or already HAD a boyfriend, or still has one, none of those go for me. For me, I want my first kiss to be unexpected, and romantic, while all my other friends got thier first kiss in spin the bottle.  I'm thirteen, turning fourteen soon, and when I say, "haha..i've never kissed anybody before, except on the cheek," they're all like. "OMFG. ARE YOU SERIOUS?" and start making a big deal out of it. I'm more of the person who just wants to have fun at this age, I'm not ready for commitment, and all that stupid drama. Like, boys have asked me out, but I always reject them, and some people start rumors saying I'm a lesbian JUST because I've never had a boyfriend.  I find it kind of stupid how like, they're all rushing into these kind of stuff....I mean, why can't they relax, and take things slow? Sometimes they even make a big deal out of ME not having a boyfriend, or not having my first kiss, and it really irritates me. So, the question is, How can I send them the message that I'm REALLY not ready for these kind of stuff, but not go bilistic on them, and be like, 'JUST LEAVE ME ALONE'....andd. What do you think of kids these days rushing into everything? ehh..some of the sixth graders at my school has already had sex, and one of the sixth graders was expelled from school because she was pregnant. >.< Oh, and...is it wrong to want to take things at a slow pace or something...because...people freak if you say you've never kissed a boy at this age.. |
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Jul 22 2006, 08:57 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
Amen amen! I'm in the same boat as you. Mostly my friends respect my view on matters such as this, but yeah people have said I was a lesbian. Just tell 'em straight up you don't need that kind of stress in your life. (I also told my friends that I thought it was ridiculous to have boyfriends in the third grade and we got into an arguement....maybe that's why we never talk about) In any case, no need to mention that part. =D
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chinke3xcuti3 First Kiss, First boyfriendd. Jul 21 2006, 05:44 PM
~*Blondie*~ well, i guess u could tell them kinda like what u ... Jul 21 2006, 05:54 PM x___F0RG0TTEN lols wow... i totally respect your decision. cuhz ... Jul 21 2006, 06:06 PM Cake. you guys are talking about your first kiss like it... Jul 21 2006, 06:13 PM xbabyboo You shouldn`t care what they think cause there... Jul 21 2006, 06:56 PM pinayprincess just say 'no' easy & simple...
QUOTEy... Jul 21 2006, 07:21 PM xwinnie If someone asked me if I was a lesbian, I'd sa... Jul 21 2006, 09:17 PM Angelina Taylor You're the first teenager (I'm assuming yo... Jul 21 2006, 09:34 PM _sarcastic_ i totally agree with you.
i don't get why so m... Jul 21 2006, 10:08 PM colleen92 i feel ya. you're one of the few people our a... Jul 21 2006, 10:25 PM lyin_in_wait tell em to cool it. you want to do something diffe... Jul 21 2006, 10:58 PM vn cuti3 lol i can feel the same thing ur feelin bout the w... Jul 21 2006, 11:41 PM miss kate x33 noooo its not..
i think we are in the same boat.. ... Jul 22 2006, 02:50 AM BrokenDream It's totally just fine to take things slow. I... Jul 22 2006, 07:36 AM one_and_only im almost 15 and still no first kiss, never even h... Jul 22 2006, 04:56 PM hiromi I respect your choice to keep your first kiss and ... Jul 22 2006, 05:32 PM pullthecord_x well, i definitely agree with you about kids these... Jul 22 2006, 08:49 PM
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