First Kiss, First boyfriendd., err...what?!?! Options

[chinke3xcuti3]

Have you noticed that "kids" or should I say, "pre-teens", seem to rush into things, like, for example, the first kiss, their first love, etc.

Well, most of my friends have already had the first kiss, I haven't. Most of my friends either WANT a boyfriend, or already HAD a boyfriend, or still has one, none of those go for me. For me, I want my first kiss to be unexpected, and romantic, while all my other friends got thier first kiss in spin the bottle. I'm thirteen, turning fourteen soon, and when I say, "haha..i've never kissed anybody before, except on the cheek," they're all like. "OMFG. ARE YOU SERIOUS?" and start making a big deal out of it. I'm more of the person who just wants to have fun at this age, I'm not ready for commitment, and all that stupid drama. Like, boys have asked me out, but I always reject them, and some people start rumors saying I'm a lesbian JUST because I've never had a boyfriend. I find it kind of stupid how like, they're all rushing into these kind of stuff....I mean, why can't they relax, and take things slow? Sometimes they even make a big deal out of ME not having a boyfriend, or not having my first kiss, and it really irritates me.

So, the question is, How can I send them the message that I'm REALLY not ready for these kind of stuff, but not go bilistic on them, and be like, 'JUST LEAVE ME ALONE'....andd. What do you think of kids these days rushing into everything? ehh..some of the sixth graders at my school has already had sex, and one of the sixth graders was expelled from school because she was pregnant. >.< Oh, and...is it wrong to want to take things at a slow pace or something...because...people freak if you say you've never kissed a boy at this age..

[BrokenDream]

It's totally just fine to take things slow. I'm your age, and I don't really want a boyfriend either. Too much drama like you said. I've already had my first kiss, and first boyfriend.. but we broke up.

If your friends snap at you and say, "OMG no way you never had a boyfriend/first kiss/never had sex?!" I'd just look them in the eye and say, "YOUR the one that's taking things too fast!" or what-not. Hey, that's what I'd do .

And WTF is up with people asking you if your lesbian! Seriously I'd just say, "No I'm not! I'm not like you freaks who take things too fast.. like having sex at this very young age, first boyfriend, and first kiss.. I take things slowly, and that's how I roll!"