First Kiss, First boyfriendd., err...what?!?! Options

[chinke3xcuti3]

Have you noticed that "kids" or should I say, "pre-teens", seem to rush into things, like, for example, the first kiss, their first love, etc.

Well, most of my friends have already had the first kiss, I haven't. Most of my friends either WANT a boyfriend, or already HAD a boyfriend, or still has one, none of those go for me. For me, I want my first kiss to be unexpected, and romantic, while all my other friends got thier first kiss in spin the bottle. I'm thirteen, turning fourteen soon, and when I say, "haha..i've never kissed anybody before, except on the cheek," they're all like. "OMFG. ARE YOU SERIOUS?" and start making a big deal out of it. I'm more of the person who just wants to have fun at this age, I'm not ready for commitment, and all that stupid drama. Like, boys have asked me out, but I always reject them, and some people start rumors saying I'm a lesbian JUST because I've never had a boyfriend. I find it kind of stupid how like, they're all rushing into these kind of stuff....I mean, why can't they relax, and take things slow? Sometimes they even make a big deal out of ME not having a boyfriend, or not having my first kiss, and it really irritates me.

So, the question is, How can I send them the message that I'm REALLY not ready for these kind of stuff, but not go bilistic on them, and be like, 'JUST LEAVE ME ALONE'....andd. What do you think of kids these days rushing into everything? ehh..some of the sixth graders at my school has already had sex, and one of the sixth graders was expelled from school because she was pregnant. >.< Oh, and...is it wrong to want to take things at a slow pace or something...because...people freak if you say you've never kissed a boy at this age..

[lyin_in_wait]

tell em to cool it. you want to do something different, you want to be proud of what you do and who you are, not who/what you did....

aw youre just like me when i was 13-14. i didnt waste any time trying to get a bf or get a kiss or any of that stuff. i wanted it to happen because i wanted to, not because every one else was doing it. which is why i think younger people rush. they see older people, or their friends doing something and the rest just want to catch up. which doesnt make it right but it happens..... kudos for you though.