Can you help?, unsure. Options

[x3chrissyx3]

Okay, so Brett* my boyfriend and I hav been together for a good amount of time. I love him with everything I have, and he says he loves me. This past summer, he started to act more like an a-hole than ever. He used to call, and he'd tell me about this girl he thinks is hot, and how he likes her. I dont know...but that got me pretty badly. Then, it started with the phone calls just to tell me goodbye, and he's walking out the door and I wouldnt hear from him in 3 weeks. In October, i found out about this girl who he'd been seeing more of, and he slept at her house, etc. Now, he started to blow me off for her....but still in all, I tried not to love him, even though I wanted him sooo badly. Meanwhile, we broke up for a month, and then he came crawling back. And since then...one day it's like "I love you" then the next day "we dont belong together" and then back to "I love you."

-So here I am, hurt and confused. We've been together for 2 years, and I would hate to break up over this. I've gotten no explanations for the way he's acting...except for the girl thing which he told me he was "kidding" - but obviously it's bullshit if it went on everyday for like, a half hour. I have ppl tellin me to stay with him, most importantly myself, and then people saying to dump him, which I want to do...I think?

I really need more opinions.

Thanks!

[Mannequin101]

let's put it this way...you claim that you love him...and if you truly do...in the long run..this wouldn't matter...a simply fact with guys is that most tend to be oblivious the things they have...but once it's gone..they'll want it back...think about how you treat him...if you've done everything a girlfriend could with loving your boyfriend...then sooner or later..he'll see that he's missing out.... in time..you'll see his true self..if he's an assohole..trust me...u'll get over it....i'll end it w/ the infamous quote "no man is worth your tears and the one who does will never make you cry"

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