When did you know you were bi/gay/lez?, and how? Options

[broken inside]

I heard most people know when thier young, I'm fourteen, nearly fifteen. I am unsure.

[iminlovewithTomD...]

Yeah... I don't believe that homosexuality/bisexuality is actually REAL. I think it's just something made up in your mind that you believe only because something happened to you... whether it be some devastating event, the enviornment, jealousy, whatever... yep... that's my thought.

[actorderick]

Yeah... I don't believe that homosexuality/bisexuality is actually REAL. I think it's just something made up in your mind that you believe only because something happened to you... whether it be some devastating event, the enviornment, jealousy, whatever... yep... that's my thought.

That is so true!

My best "online" friends went through some really bad things in his life.

I remember talking with him when he was 11: He loved girls, thought about sex, and had a guy's voice (we talked live over MSN).

Then some really bad things went on in his life, he got depressed , his dad was in jail, and other bad stuff that i don't want to say incase he reads this somehow.

Anyways, now 2 years later I start to talk to him a lot. He tells me how he desided he was gay, and has done stuff with a guy. We talking live over msn, and he totally had a gay lisp.

I am almost sure he became gay because of the bad things that went on through his life.


I think some guys just to conclusions about their sexuality too soon. Most guys deisde they are gay when they are going through puberty. While you are going through puberty your hormones are all crazy, and anything will turn you on. They then convince themselves that they are gay, even though they are still in puberty. Then they go through the rest of their life thinking they are gay, thanks to their crazy hormones.