all my friends... Options

[colleen92]

ok nearing the end of the school year, i could tell a few of my friends were being jerks. even my best friend. i could tell even more when i spent the weekend at the beach with 3 of my friends for her birthday. my best friend was just acting like i wasn't good enough for her or something. i mean this is the girl that i hung out with every weekend and sat next to every day for the entire school year. so i was pretty mad. then earlier in the summer i did a 3 week art institute and i got to meet some kids a year or two older and they were SO much nicer than a lot of the people my age. i mean so many of the people in my grade are SO superficial...like abercrombie, hollister, and starbucks worshippers. they judge everything you do. and i'm sick of it. so now i'm left with about 3 people my age that i like and are good friends and a couple people from the art institute. i really want to be friends with my best friend again, but not if she's going to act like that.

has this happened to anybody before? what did you do? what can i do?

[katherinee]

damn, that's hella tough!!
well in like all teen shows or movies; they always have a story plot that someones best friend, isn't anymore.. ya feel? However, i know i shouldn't be comparing TV fictional stories and real life, but in some way it could almost be the same!

People change, and your friend that you still think is your "bffae" (haha) changed how she deals socially with other people. However, at the end of the day, she'll still be that one bestfriend,, because sometimes those really good memories that both of you had will always be "superglued" in her head. But sometimes, you gotta let go of some people, even the ones you care about.

Also, when i read that she cut you off of her picture; that was hella wack as a "former friend", this is the time were life is telling you to move on to greater things, meet new people and become the best of friends. Just don't let her rudeness get to you, as JAY-Z said, brush your shoulders off;;

well hope this helped!
don't worry, if she thinks she can just drop you as friend, well so be it. you have more important things in life.