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sadolakced acid
post Jul 17 2006, 11:52 PM
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Which is better? To keep loving someone you can never have, or stop loving and walk away?
 
 
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Jane Doe.
post Jul 18 2006, 01:58 AM
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I was in a situation where I had to decide that exact same thing.
I honestly did want to walk away and to stop loving entirely. I didn't want to go through something like that again, especially believing that only the same will happen again.
Of course, I wanted to become cold and to not emote any longer.. which I guess I still do.

I haven't exactly walked away, though. I continue speaking to this person, and I am trying hard to only want them as a friend and not care for them in this way--but at the same time, I want to stop feeling this way and to not let it happen again.
God this is hard.

Well, I'm walking away and giving up my feelings for them and any chances of ever caring for someone else, so I guess I'll pick the latter.
 

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sadolakced acid   philosophical question   Jul 17 2006, 11:52 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   Not stop loving and walk away, but stop loving tha...   Jul 18 2006, 12:06 AM
pinayprincess   QUOTEb' date='Jul 18 2006, 1:06 AM' po...   Jul 18 2006, 01:39 AM
tbabbyx3   QUOTEb' date='Jul 18 2006, 12:06 AM' p...   Jul 25 2006, 01:03 AM
Programmer   stop loving that individual and walk away. But som...   Jul 18 2006, 12:08 AM
Brittany Rachelle   oh wow. i don't even want to think about that.   Jul 18 2006, 12:09 AM
xiMiJix   to not stop loving and walk-away ....yeaap .   Jul 18 2006, 12:37 AM
sadolakced acid   stop loving only that person isn't a choice fo...   Jul 18 2006, 12:40 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   Oh then that's a harder decision. But I'd...   Jul 18 2006, 01:07 AM
autodidact.   I was in a situation where I had to decide that ex...   Jul 18 2006, 01:58 AM
lyin_in_wait   uhm. well you can love them from a distance and ac...   Jul 18 2006, 09:04 PM
lol lollipops   To be honest, I'd rather stop loving at all ...   Jul 18 2006, 09:24 PM
Shahin   Stop lovin all together. I wouldn't be able to...   Jul 18 2006, 10:16 PM
french_fries   stop loving that individual and move on.. which is...   Jul 18 2006, 11:48 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   stop loving and move on because its harder for me ...   Jul 20 2006, 10:33 PM
xbabyboo   I`d say stop and keep walkin`..someone who...   Jul 20 2006, 11:15 PM
Shinji_Mimura   Do I want to keep killing myself, clinging on to t...   Jul 20 2006, 11:32 PM
Libertie   Keep loving, even if it hurts. If you walk away it...   Jul 20 2006, 11:41 PM
_sarcastic_   to keep loving but can't have that person   Jul 21 2006, 10:52 AM
baby_in_blue   keep lovin`.   Jul 21 2006, 05:32 PM
Uronacid   Well, you should love everyone... If you mean love...   Jul 25 2006, 05:00 PM
shattered_soul   stop loving that person and move on. the longer yo...   Jul 25 2006, 05:49 PM
msladyliberty   keep loving...to stop is even harder.   Jul 25 2006, 06:29 PM
tainted_angel   I agree with Bella. To stop loving that person and...   Jul 25 2006, 09:28 PM
emazing   If you really do have feelings/love that person, t...   Jul 26 2006, 03:12 AM
baby_in_blue   i read this again, and now i dont know..   Jul 26 2006, 04:15 AM
This Confession   to quit loving that person and walk away. You can...   Jul 26 2006, 07:42 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 26 2006, 8:42...   Jul 26 2006, 09:43 AM


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