Don't Laugh at this question, What do you consider a virgin? |
 Jul 7 2006, 12:03 AM
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Okay, this question might sound stupid, but I just am wondering...Well, some people think that if you have had oral sex you are no longer a virgin, and others say that you must have intercourse to lose your virginity. I think it only counts if you go all the way, but what do you think?
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Jul 7 2006, 10:39 AM
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Personally, I believe that you cannot genuinely include yourself in the ''non-virgin'' spectrum until you have actually had intercourse. By this, I mean, technically speaking. I am certain that most of you know what that means exactly, but for those of you who do not know [if you are one of these people.... then you really should not be having intercourse!] this is when the penis is inserted into the vaginal area.
Oral sex is not sex, in my opinion. Oral sex is more so a sexual experience in my eyes. I have a question. This is completely legit, and I am curious, so please no one laugh.... If say, a lesbian were to have sex, how would they know that they are no longer a virgin in the technical sense? Manually falls under a form of oral sex, and that does not count. So, yeah.... interesting, no? o.0. |
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Jul 11 2006, 01:21 PM
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QUOTE(Torey @ Jul 7 2006, 12:39 PM)  Oral sex is not sex, in my opinion. Oral sex is more so a sexual experience in my eyes. Not trying to be rude, but that doesn't make any sense. Oral sex is not sex?? In my opinion Oral sex is sex! |
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Jul 11 2006, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(Sparkle09 @ Jul 11 2006, 2:21 PM) Not trying to be rude, but that doesn't make any sense. Oral sex is not sex?? In my opinion Oral sex is sex! I was referring to ''oral sex'', as that is what most people know it by. Personally, I believe that ''oral sex'' is a form of sex, yes. However, I do not believe that one's virginity is genuinely gone unless the vaginal area is in fact penetrated. There are more than one way one could consider virginity. You have the physical aspect [penetration] and you have the emotional/mental state of this. Say you were penetrated, but you did not feel in your mind and in your heart that your virginity was taken from you. I would say in the physical aspect, you are no longer a virgin. However, emotionally, you still are. Virginity can only be given away. Not in half form. There are no in-betweens. It's everything. In the physical aspect, getting back to the lesbian thing, say if someone were to fool around manually.... would that count? Can a girl's finger even break the hymen? 
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Kealey Don't Laugh at this question Jul 7 2006, 12:03 AM
cassjamminx i don't think it's a dumb question, a lot ... Jul 7 2006, 12:05 AM skinnyminnie oral is just 3rd base. all the way is considered..... Jul 7 2006, 12:11 AM bballchick1 When there is sexual intercourse, you are no longe... Jul 7 2006, 08:54 AM
smallsXalmighty QUOTE(bballchick1 @ Jul 7 2006, 9:54 AM) ... Jul 8 2006, 09:46 PM Kealey QUOTE(Torey @ Jul 7 2006, 11:39 AM) Perso... Jul 7 2006, 04:48 PM Becca Pearl I consider any sexual contact as sex...point blank... Jul 7 2006, 04:46 PM seremela_culnamo Despite the things that people may do that are con... Jul 7 2006, 06:00 PM Shinji_Mimura The butt doesn't count. Jul 7 2006, 07:28 PM mocassinsx29 if the penis goes in the vagina, you lose your vir... Jul 7 2006, 07:36 PM xbabyboo ^^yeah thats what I think..when you go all the way... Jul 7 2006, 10:50 PM Brittany Rachelle I think you're right about that. You can only ... Jul 8 2006, 09:36 PM Cake. if you're lesbian and your vagina touches anot... Jul 9 2006, 12:07 AM helllla jankyyyy I think once you've had had all the way sex yo... Jul 9 2006, 12:10 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(helllla jankyyyy @ Jul 9 2006, 1:10... Jul 10 2006, 12:54 PM Chad_man Who just has oral and not go all the way??? Well w... Jul 9 2006, 12:39 AM thriftstoresecrets QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 9 2006, 1:39 AM) Who... Jul 10 2006, 12:39 PM xcaitlinx i think it's ridiculous when people say that y... Jul 11 2006, 11:59 AM Freaky Krazer if your hymen was broken by someone's penis th... Jul 11 2006, 01:47 PM xcaitlinx QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 11 2006, 2:47 P... Jul 11 2006, 02:03 PM priyas vaginal sex. Jul 11 2006, 03:00 PM deranged_allure I think when you have had sexual-intercourse you a... Jul 11 2006, 06:01 PM pinayprincess if the penis has entered into the vagina - you are... Jul 12 2006, 12:44 AM n_Oodles I've always considered losing your virginity w... Jul 12 2006, 01:10 AM pastellove_ I've never questioned about this before.. but ... Jul 12 2006, 01:49 AM Torey What the hell is a hymen? I know I mentioned it in... Jul 12 2006, 09:05 AM donut9023 QUOTE(Torey @ Jul 12 2006, 9:05 AM) What ... Jul 13 2006, 11:30 PM broken inside It's kind of like the first kiss thing- some p... Jul 13 2006, 04:00 AM |
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