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i need help understanding my exboyfriend, its so bizzare
brooklyngirl119
post Jul 9 2006, 10:30 AM
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so we broke up in january...he broke up with me for many reasons...it was the whole "its not you, its me"

and there were still rumors going on about us in june

and he keeps saying to me that he wants to be friends

but its really weird because he keeps bring up our relationship when we talk...

and i dont really wanna care cuz i do wanna date again even tho he keeps saying we should just be friends

so i told him what i felt

and i still havent gotten any response...and right now he's on vacation....

but my thing is i dont think he's telling me the whole story of how he feels....and if he is, then he's not explaining it well

but anyways, i'm not sure what else to do

stop talking to him? try to date him? try to be friends?

i need help
 
 
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kagome845
post Jul 9 2006, 10:01 PM
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my advice to you is..
let HIM be the one chasing after you.
don't be the one desperate.

this recently happened to me a couple weeks ago
we broke up and couple months later he asked for me back.

maybe your guy just needs a bit of time to think.. ^0^;
 
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post Jul 10 2006, 01:29 AM
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QUOTE(kagome845 @ Jul 9 2006, 11:01 PM) *
my advice to you is..
let HIM be the one chasing after you.
don't be the one desperate.

this recently happened to me a couple weeks ago
we broke up and couple months later he asked for me back.

maybe your guy just needs a bit of time to think.. ^0^;



yess!!! i totally agree! i think you should leave him alone ... not talk to him.. i used to be in your position... untill i gave up on him b/c all he wanted to do was tell me the same bullshit everytime [excuse my language]. i let him be for only 2 weeks! and he came running back for me telling me that he missed me, loved me etc etc... til this day he still does it! i feel so good now, not that i finally 'gained' the attention back but to know i was right.. that hes gonna come running back lol laugh.gif
 

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