Does a "break" really help to improve a relationship? |
 Jul 9 2006, 07:50 PM
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if you were not to talk/see or have any contact with your gf/bf for a week or so, do you think it would help you appreciate each other more? since you're not used to having that one person who's always been there...u realize that it's more important than you think? .. i dunno if i still make sense but ..
my boyfriend is considering we try that approach because lately, we've been in a lot of arguements about silly things, and if this continues, it will just come to a dead end, so he decided to do that "break" i stated above. do you think that could improve a relationship? * and for many couples , arguements are inevitable if you plan on a long-term relationship, but do you guys know of any ways we could prevent some unneccesary ones, or lessen the number of arguements.....  and we've talked about this break and our problems already. so the talking approach is done, i'm just waiting to see if this "break" idea actually works. any suggestions for the arguement part of it? :) |
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Jul 10 2006, 01:15 AM
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no no no no no! it only gives the significant other [or yourself] the advantage to mess w/ other people... if you SAY that you or bf/gf wouldnt do that then u guys wouldnt have had a break in the first place!!
put it like this; its just a 'nicer' way of saying "i want to break up" |
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dorkk-ie Does a "break" really help to improve a relationship? Jul 9 2006, 07:50 PM
Gypsy Eyes It depends, sometimes it does. But sometimes it do... Jul 9 2006, 08:02 PM cassjamminx breaks work to some extent.
from my experience (... Jul 9 2006, 08:06 PM xcaitlinx ahh i know exactly what you're going through s... Jul 9 2006, 08:08 PM xbabyboo Hm..it depends how strong the love is..Sometimes b... Jul 9 2006, 08:31 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jul 9 2006, 8:31 PM) Hm.... Jul 10 2006, 12:37 AM jennypie Hmm, seems like it happens a lot at around the sam... Jul 9 2006, 08:45 PM My Cinderella. It's kind of a 50 50 thing. It can either: 1) ... Jul 9 2006, 08:54 PM cassjamminx QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 9 2006, 11:15 P... Jul 10 2006, 01:24 PM klee I think it works sometimes and then again, sometim... Jul 10 2006, 10:22 AM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Yeah, I tried that with my ex... didn't work. ... Jul 10 2006, 06:12 PM JACKIE cuh it really doesnt help! i should knoe cus thats... Jul 10 2006, 06:33 PM danielle_x3 it depends on the relationship. maybe the distance... Jul 11 2006, 09:04 PM STFULiNDA to me..i guess if you werent good enough for him/h... Jul 11 2006, 09:38 PM This Confession Breaks,
Its how you both come to them I would thin... Jul 11 2006, 11:14 PM I_Heart_Blink I've heard that the longer you go without seei... Jul 12 2006, 04:07 AM cassjamminx QUOTE(I_Heart_Blink @ Jul 12 2006, 2:07 A... Jul 12 2006, 02:03 PM alpha623 I guess it just depends. Well for me it just means... Jul 12 2006, 11:43 AM nycaf12 what if.. the break was a month. we had a fight ov... Jul 29 2006, 04:43 AM guy fawkes A break in a relationship has no power to create w... Jul 29 2006, 05:31 AM nycaf12 yeah i agree with you..guess ill just have to wait... Jul 30 2006, 02:33 AM BeautifullyxBr0ken Most of the time it does. At least it has with mar... Aug 1 2006, 04:41 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo It helped me .. :-) Aug 1 2006, 01:27 PM helllla jankyyyy I hope so.
...If it IS a break .. Aug 1 2006, 03:22 PM just_rissa It depends on the guy mostly. During a break he ca... Aug 1 2006, 06:41 PM one43s from experience, don't think
breaks are helpfu... Aug 1 2006, 11:53 PM xnastyninjagrlx Usually when someone wants a break that usually me... Aug 2 2006, 02:59 PM xcaitlinx QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 2 2006, 3:59 ... Aug 2 2006, 07:19 PM msladyliberty Get a hobby.
it will decrease the arguments.
-nev... Aug 2 2006, 06:46 PM ermfermoo ABSOLUTELY NOT.
If a guy says that, it means he wa... Aug 2 2006, 09:23 PM |
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