HELP !, how should i tell my mom .. |
 Jul 6 2006, 03:41 PM
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I have had a couple of bf's now, nd the one im currently with, wel i REALLY like him, but i didnt tell my mom. Instead of sneaking behind her back, i wanna go on an actual real date nd not be worried. I mean i never brought up the subject, but im afriad if i do, shell make me brake up with him .. nd to make it worse, i dont really get along with my parents or praticuly tell them anything about my life .. PLEASE SHOULD I ASK MY MOM, IF SO THEN HOW ? ND WAT IF SHE DOESNT APPROVE ?
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Jul 9 2006, 12:13 AM
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If I were in your place I wouldn't tell her. I'd keep my mouth shut. If I ever want to go out with him . . I'd lie & say I'm with so and so. That's what I did.
I know lying is not the way to go but parents just need time to realize you growing up. --- My parents said I was allowed to date till I was 15. I had boyfriends before then. Short relationships though. Like a month so I never told her. However, my last boyfriend and I were together for three & a half months. I know she said I could date at 15 but she still seemed stricted about it even though we never talked about it. ( I am allowed to have guy friends tho.) I really though that last boyfriend was going to be real long term & I wanted to tell her. Instead, I decided to wait a little longer. I was planning to tell her slowly but it never happened cus we broke up. |
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LoveIsxMyLife HELP ! Jul 6 2006, 03:41 PM
STFULiNDA Well how long have ya'll been together ?
Anywa... Jul 6 2006, 04:45 PM Classical Twist You should try talking to her about dating in gene... Jul 6 2006, 05:15 PM baby_in_blue just go with the flow, tell your mom.
the worst th... Jul 6 2006, 05:40 PM xbabyboo Tell her your growing up and your ready for a rela... Jul 6 2006, 06:42 PM da_SALSA well if you dont have a good relationship w/ your ... Jul 6 2006, 09:12 PM magicfann Take a few black-and-white pictures of your boyfri... Jul 6 2006, 09:39 PM cassjamminx ^ hahahhahahahahah that's a good one, huh?
... Jul 6 2006, 10:45 PM LoveIsxMyLife Well, thanks everybody for helping, but the thing ... Jul 7 2006, 02:10 PM
airam QUOTE(LoveIsxMyLife @ Jul 7 2006, 3:10 PM... Jul 8 2006, 01:45 PM **moonstruck** Just tell her. Sit down with her like at night bef... Jul 7 2006, 09:00 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE Just talk with her. My mother is the "smother... Jul 8 2006, 12:51 AM Brittany Rachelle How old are you? She shouldn't be mad or make ... Jul 8 2006, 09:46 PM Cake. look, don't tell your mom about your boyfriend... Jul 9 2006, 12:10 AM Chad_man tell ur mom, if she doesn't approve forget her... Jul 9 2006, 12:31 AM x3itsLYSS I think you should tell her now because she'd ... Jul 9 2006, 10:14 PM I_Heart_Blink it kind of would help to know your age.
if you... Jul 12 2006, 12:29 AM pinayprincess well yeah; take a shot, but if you RATHER NOT RISK... Jul 12 2006, 12:38 AM |
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