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misfit
post Jul 5 2006, 05:53 AM
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Ok yesterday my boyfriend said he was feeling insecure about me,worry that i'd leave him.And then he was mentioning marriage and then changed the subjct and I was just on the phone to him before and I said I wanna see you and he goes why and isaid coz I miss you and he goes why and I said coz I love you and he goes why?And I said why do you want to know?And he goes I just do.And I told him why I love him and he said but I lecture you(what we were fighting about earlier on) and barely ever come to your house.I was like are you trying to break up with me?And he goes no then laughed and said you're an idiot.I thought about it more and I went all quiet then hung up...
Have I taken him the wrong way?I'm so confused.


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I just spoke to him then and he said as if i'd break up with you i love you,I was just curious but I didn't see it that way...How would you take it if you were me?
 
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 12:44 AM
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I just don't stay at his house through the week coz his mum doesn't want me too,coz she wants to be abe to come home and relax,not that she can't do that I spose she just wants to come home not to a visitor..We see eachother every weekend though,without fail...I did end up staying lastnight though(thursday night),coz we made up something,saying that we were going somewhere and needed somewhere to stay after it,we didn't go or anything but yeah.. and i'm probably going to be staying til Sunday. I did message him(as in text message to his phone/sms) and he said firstly why are you look through my stuff,secondly the fork thing is a old joke her and I had.
We do see eachother enough...If we could, we'd move out together.

I know i've mentioned on the phon e or whatever,but the first time is coz I was at home and he was at his home and it was through the week when I can't stay.So therefore we were talking on msn and that's when he mentiopned stuff and then he called me.Then my other replies well,I ended up staying at his house lastnight and this issue has just come up today about me feeling all insecure and worried all over again and getting thoughts in my head and then checking his message history.He's at workj at the moment so I just text messaged to his phone.HE will be home soon though,we'll obviously talk about it but yeah...

I do over react sometimes...

I suppose his just insecure and wanted me to reassure him,that i'm not leaving him...thanks people...apart from the negative tuff that has made me worry and stuff..
 

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misfit   Confused..   Jul 5 2006, 05:53 AM
magicfann   1) he's messing around 2) he likes another gir...   Jul 5 2006, 08:22 AM
misfit   QUOTE(magicfann @ Jul 5 2006, 11:22 PM) 1...   Jul 5 2006, 01:41 PM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(magicfann @ Jul 5 2006, 8:22 AM) 1)...   Jul 7 2006, 12:22 AM
lyin_in_wait   either hes playing some serious mind games on some...   Jul 5 2006, 09:22 AM
tainted_angel   How he said all of that, that wasn't cool. I s...   Jul 5 2006, 11:53 AM
bballchick1   Wow, he's seriously messing with you. He...   Jul 5 2006, 12:43 PM
STFULiNDA   Umm..it looks like you know what you were confused...   Jul 5 2006, 05:22 PM
misfit   ,I was asking for opinions,but hm yeah I suppose I...   Jul 5 2006, 08:37 PM
xbabyboo   If I were you,I would be sort of mad..I wouldn...   Jul 5 2006, 08:41 PM
baby_in_blue   QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jul 5 2006, 8:41 PM) If ...   Jul 6 2006, 02:26 AM
misfit   Why so you all think he's been unfaithful?None...   Jul 6 2006, 07:21 AM
yanners   Okay, to be honest, I didn't really understand...   Jul 6 2006, 08:55 AM
lyin_in_wait   Every guy plays mind games, whether its intentiona...   Jul 6 2006, 01:04 PM
lanbexx   its simple. he loves you, he's jealous of othe...   Jul 6 2006, 04:04 PM
STFULiNDA   I think he's just worried that you might just ...   Jul 6 2006, 04:33 PM
misfit   Thanx,you're really sweet =)...And yeah girls ...   Jul 6 2006, 09:45 PM
anoniez   lol he's just being insecure, my boyfriend doe...   Jul 6 2006, 09:59 PM
misfit   now i feel like smsing him and getting angry at hi...   Jul 6 2006, 10:08 PM
cassjamminx   ^ try not to sweat it out so much. i know some ev...   Jul 6 2006, 10:30 PM
misfit   I just don't stay at his house through the wee...   Jul 7 2006, 12:44 AM


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