Confused.. Options

[misfit]

Ok yesterday my boyfriend said he was feeling insecure about me,worry that i'd leave him.And then he was mentioning marriage and then changed the subjct and I was just on the phone to him before and I said I wanna see you and he goes why and isaid coz I miss you and he goes why and I said coz I love you and he goes why?And I said why do you want to know?And he goes I just do.And I told him why I love him and he said but I lecture you(what we were fighting about earlier on) and barely ever come to your house.I was like are you trying to break up with me?And he goes no then laughed and said you're an idiot.I thought about it more and I went all quiet then hung up...
Have I taken him the wrong way?I'm so confused.


-EDIT-
I just spoke to him then and he said as if i'd break up with you i love you,I was just curious but I didn't see it that way...How would you take it if you were me?

[magicfann]

1) he's messing around
2) he likes another girl
3) he's a bit slow in the head
4) he's trying to show he's sensitive and philosophical and is a great thinker
5) he's thinking about jack bauer

[Paradox of Life]

1) he's messing around
2) he likes another girl
3) he's a bit slow in the head
4) he's trying to show he's sensitive and philosophical and is a great thinker
5) he's thinking about jack bauer

I think I'm leaning toward number 4 there. With the "why?" "why?" questioning stuff. I think he's just trying to get you to flatter him by telling him why he's so great to you.

Firstly, relax, girl! No one's trying to make you feel insecure, and there's on reason to jump to conclusions. It seems like you two aren't around each other enough. The only communication I hear of is through the phone or instant messaging. It's hard to talk to someone seriously without being able to look them in the eye.

And about the whole hot girl thing. He's a guy. Guys always do that stuff. And sometimes they do it just so they have a sense that you are competing with other girls for them.

Think small talk. Don't talk about commitment or anything beyond a couple of years in the future. And don't overanalyze everything. Just relax, talk to your boyfriend about the weather, sports, music, hobbies, etc.