Spilling out the Beans.... Options

[x-klutzibabi-x]

My bf and I have been together a little more than 6 months and we still have a problem that's been with us from the start. My bf constantly questions me on how I feel and wants me to share my feelings to him. The questions are more related to the heart (no...not the thing that keeps humans alive), and I have a hard time telling him how I feel.

He expects that it'll be easy for me since I'm a girl and stereotypically, girls tend to spill out everything on how they feel. Everytime it comes to this conversation, I end up hurting him since I can't-...more like I don't know how to tell him how I feel. Therefore, I feel like a selfish gf because I can't answer and tell him what he wants to hear.

I don't know what to do, I don't know how to share my feelings to anyone. I was taught to keep things to yourself as a young kid.

[cassjamminx]

He expects that it'll be easy for me since I'm a girl and stereotypically, girls tend to spill out everything on how they feel. Everytime it comes to this conversation, I end up hurting him since I can't-...more like I don't know how to tell him how I feel. Therefore, I feel like a selfish gf because I can't answer and tell him what he wants to hear.

I don't know what to do, I don't know how to share my feelings to anyone. I was taught to keep things to yourself as a young kid.

if you do have strong feelings for him that he assumes you do i'm sure, but it's just hard for you to explain, let him know that.

be like, "my feelings for you are completely indescribable."

i mean, that's a good thing, mention that it's a good thing, yet indescribable.

some things are too good for words. let him know that how you feel doesn't have any words to define it. (if that's how you feel i mean.)