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 Jun 17 2006, 06:20 PM
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 Hold my hand lets chase the sun  Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,942  |
yea i was just wondering what you guys think about arranged marriages? it doesn't happen as often ne more but in some countries they still do this
so what do u think about them? |
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Jun 26 2006, 03:57 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
I don't think marriage may be forced in America... but if it's religious and a tradition that's gone on for decades and decades, just marry the man and make the best of it, I guess.
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Jul 2 2006, 02:54 AM
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 ||Leon/Silent W[hisper]|| Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 257,387 |
QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jun 26 2006, 3:57 PM)  I don't think marriage may be forced in America... but if it's religious and a tradition that's gone on for decades and decades, just marry the man and make the best of it, I guess. But that is so damn disgusting and utterly rude.so what if they say "my daughter/son,you make me proud,your getting married to your cousin today,congradulations"What so thats cool too?!Thats just nasty,My brothers friend had to marry his cousin which is just nasty ew.Arranged marriages are wrong i say.WRONG!! |
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Jul 4 2006, 05:49 PM
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 Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 2 2006, 3:54 AM) "my daughter/son,you make me proud,your getting married to your cousin today,congradulations" Before I reply to your last post, I'm still trying to figure out where in your ass you pulled that out. Who said anything about arranged marriages being incest? And like it was stated before, they don't just pick a random person. The parents pick who they think you'd like based on your opinions and likes/dislikes. Now, some parents just choose for status. Say, they pick a guy with tons of money to raise their family's status. I don't agree with that at all. |
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Jul 6 2006, 10:13 AM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 4 2006, 3:49 PM) Before I reply to your last post, I'm still trying to figure out where in your ass you pulled that out. Who said anything about arranged marriages being incest? And like it was stated before, they don't just pick a random person. The parents pick who they think you'd like based on your opinions and likes/dislikes. Now, some parents just choose for status. Say, they pick a guy with tons of money to raise their family's status. I don't agree with that at all.  Ummmm where do i start hmmm maybe at the part where who the hell cares if they pick someone with the same like/dislikes or oppinions. Doesn't the saying "Opposites attract". And what if they share the same likes and all that, if you don't love them it makes no sence to mary them or even be their girlfreind.
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Jul 6 2006, 10:30 PM
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Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 6 2006, 11:13 AM) Ummmm where do i start hmmm maybe at the part where who the hell cares if they pick someone with the same like/dislikes or oppinions. Doesn't the saying "Opposites attract". And what if they share the same likes and all that, if you don't love them it makes no sence to mary them or even be their girlfreind.And... what's your point? Let me make a few. 1. Before you pick an argument with me, please, at least learn how to finish your sentences. 2. Learn how to spell. 3. I was replying to the ignorant input of another cB member. 4. If you would've read the whole thread, like it says in the debate rules, you would've seen that I too am against arranged marriages, so don't go preaching to me about how they are wrong. 5. Read the forum rules and community guidelines. |
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luvnhate arranged marriages Jun 17 2006, 06:20 PM
Angelina Taylor Entirely wrong!!! Why not let people f... Jun 17 2006, 06:44 PM
NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 17 2006, 6:44... Jun 17 2006, 08:44 PM marzipan i think it's wrong. people should be able to c... Jun 17 2006, 08:46 PM This Confession people can fall in love and get married exactly ho... Jun 18 2006, 07:13 AM sw33t_rouge i think arrnaged marriages are not wrong or right.... Jun 18 2006, 07:48 AM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(sw33t_rouge @ Jun 18 2006, 8:48 AM)... Jun 18 2006, 05:12 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 18 2006, 6:12... Jun 18 2006, 05:52 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jun 18 2006, 6... Jun 18 2006, 06:40 PM icy_wonderland QUOTE(sw33t_rouge @ Jun 18 2006, 8:48 PM)... Jul 7 2006, 04:10 AM Steph Chan totally against them. Jun 18 2006, 05:42 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK ^Well there are many things wrong in the world. I ... Jun 18 2006, 06:43 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jun 18 2006, 7... Jun 18 2006, 07:54 PM NinjaxMageLayouts I agree with taylor all the way.Sure some cultures... Jun 18 2006, 06:44 PM Ajmalhuuss I am pakistani and in my country over 80% of the m... Jun 20 2006, 09:00 AM x_lilvietdreamer_x what if you arranged to marry someone that you did... Jun 20 2006, 10:04 AM zomgznoway I agree with ajmalhuuss. I'm Indian, and I... Jun 26 2006, 03:51 PM ECD & C0 QUOTEIn no way does it mean your parents pick some... Jun 26 2006, 03:52 PM Paradox of Life QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 2 2006, 2:5... Jul 4 2006, 02:27 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jul 4 2006, 2:27 ... Jul 4 2006, 04:05 PM Paradox of Life QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 4 2006, 4:0... Jul 7 2006, 12:49 AM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 4 2006, 5:49 PM) Bef... Jul 5 2006, 01:42 AM iRock cB Statement:QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 5 200... Jul 6 2006, 01:36 AM rawtheekuh. ^dude, wth. did you even bother taking the time to... Jul 2 2006, 07:33 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Jul 2 2006, 7:33 PM) ... Jul 4 2006, 02:50 AM iRock cB I think it's wrong but I'm sure the ugly g... Jul 3 2006, 02:44 PM Spiritual Winged Aura omg.
it happen between my asian parents, mom and ... Jul 6 2006, 02:56 AM monkieluver12 I think its both right and wrong in a sense, it de... Jul 6 2006, 03:42 AM icy_wonderland I think it's REALLY wrong. i think marriage i... Jul 6 2006, 10:41 PM skinnyminnie i think that the parents get security in the knowl... Jul 6 2006, 11:52 PM Angelina Taylor It just.. it defeats the purpose of life (accordin... Jul 7 2006, 12:42 PM iRock cB QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 7 2006, 1:42 ... Jul 7 2006, 06:56 PM vandiee my parents got arranged.
and they're fine. so... Jul 7 2006, 04:31 PM Angelina Taylor ^ Good, I'm glad. Jul 7 2006, 07:39 PM Listelle Love may be missing in an arranged marriage, but w... Jul 8 2006, 10:06 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Listelle @ Jul 8 2006, 11:06 PM) Lo... Jul 8 2006, 10:47 PM Listelle ^Actually, I'm not.
Maybe its because my fami... Jul 8 2006, 11:09 PM Angelina Taylor ^
Just because you want to marry someone you love... Jul 9 2006, 08:30 AM priyas i don't like them.
Neither do my parents. SO... Jul 9 2006, 09:44 AM Paradox of Life ^ Please keep in mind that this is a debate. Eithe... Jul 9 2006, 01:23 PM |
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