Spilling out the Beans.... |
 Jul 6 2006, 07:19 PM
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 cookie monster! =]  Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,492  |
My bf and I have been together a little more than 6 months and we still have a problem that's been with us from the start. My bf constantly questions me on how I feel and wants me to share my feelings to him. The questions are more related to the heart (no...not the thing that keeps humans alive), and I have a hard time telling him how I feel.
He expects that it'll be easy for me since I'm a girl and stereotypically, girls tend to spill out everything on how they feel. Everytime it comes to this conversation, I end up hurting him since I can't-...more like I don't know how to tell him how I feel. Therefore, I feel like a selfish gf because I can't answer and tell him what he wants to hear.  I don't know what to do, I don't know how to share my feelings to anyone. I was taught to keep things to yourself as a young kid. |
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Jul 6 2006, 09:09 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Tell him straight up what you just told us.Tell him you can`t open up right now because you were taught to keep things to yourself.I`m sure he`ll understand.
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Jul 6 2006, 09:32 PM
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cookie monster! =] Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,492 |
QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jul 6 2006, 9:09 PM)  Tell him straight up what you just told us.Tell him you can`t open up right now because you were taught to keep things to yourself.I`m sure he`ll understand. I have, but he still doesn't understand. 
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x-klutzibabi-x Spilling out the Beans.... Jul 6 2006, 07:19 PM
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