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HELP !, how should i tell my mom ..
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post Jul 6 2006, 03:41 PM
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I have had a couple of bf's now, nd the one im currently with, wel i REALLY like him, but i didnt tell my mom. Instead of sneaking behind her back, i wanna go on an actual real date nd not be worried. I mean i never brought up the subject, but im afriad if i do, shell make me brake up with him .. nd to make it worse, i dont really get along with my parents or praticuly tell them anything about my life .. PLEASE SHOULD I ASK MY MOM, IF SO THEN HOW ? ND WAT IF SHE DOESNT APPROVE ?
 
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 04:45 PM
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Well how long have ya'll been together ?
Anyways just be like " mom would it be okay if i have a boyfriend, if you meet him & blah blah"
see what she says about that...& if she's okay with it then let him come over & meet your parents dont tell your mom you love him yet...because she's not going to believe you love him & she might think you want to have sex with him because you "think" you love him...& im not saying you do love him or not. But if she doesnt like the idea of you having a bf then...if you truly like him just dont say anything about it. I mean you've gotten through at least a couple of days without her knowing you have a bf...right ?
& if you wanna go on a date just tell you mom your going out to the movies with a couple of friends..& meet up with him ?
BUT then again if she does find out your hiding him from her she might think there is something fishy about him ya know what i mean ? -
i know if i had a daugher & she hid something that simple from me i would wonder what else she hides from me ? & i would think is there a reason she's hiding him from me is there something wrong with him ?
Well just do what you have to do :)
 

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LoveIsxMyLife   HELP !   Jul 6 2006, 03:41 PM
STFULiNDA   Well how long have ya'll been together ? Anywa...   Jul 6 2006, 04:45 PM
Classical Twist   You should try talking to her about dating in gene...   Jul 6 2006, 05:15 PM
baby_in_blue   just go with the flow, tell your mom. the worst th...   Jul 6 2006, 05:40 PM
xbabyboo   Tell her your growing up and your ready for a rela...   Jul 6 2006, 06:42 PM
da_SALSA   well if you dont have a good relationship w/ your ...   Jul 6 2006, 09:12 PM
magicfann   Take a few black-and-white pictures of your boyfri...   Jul 6 2006, 09:39 PM
cassjamminx   ^ hahahhahahahahah that's a good one, huh? ...   Jul 6 2006, 10:45 PM
LoveIsxMyLife   Well, thanks everybody for helping, but the thing ...   Jul 7 2006, 02:10 PM
airam   QUOTE(LoveIsxMyLife @ Jul 7 2006, 3:10 PM...   Jul 8 2006, 01:45 PM
**moonstruck**   Just tell her. Sit down with her like at night bef...   Jul 7 2006, 09:00 PM
WHIMSICAL 0NE   Just talk with her. My mother is the "smother...   Jul 8 2006, 12:51 AM
Brittany Rachelle   How old are you? She shouldn't be mad or make ...   Jul 8 2006, 09:46 PM
Cake.   look, don't tell your mom about your boyfriend...   Jul 9 2006, 12:10 AM
helllla jankyyyy   If I were in your place I wouldn't tell her. I...   Jul 9 2006, 12:13 AM
Chad_man   tell ur mom, if she doesn't approve forget her...   Jul 9 2006, 12:31 AM
x3itsLYSS   I think you should tell her now because she'd ...   Jul 9 2006, 10:14 PM
I_Heart_Blink   it kind of would help to know your age. if you...   Jul 12 2006, 12:29 AM
pinayprincess   well yeah; take a shot, but if you RATHER NOT RISK...   Jul 12 2006, 12:38 AM


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