HELP !, how should i tell my mom .. |
HELP !, how should i tell my mom .. |
Jul 6 2006, 03:41 PM
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I have had a couple of bf's now, nd the one im currently with, wel i REALLY like him, but i didnt tell my mom. Instead of sneaking behind her back, i wanna go on an actual real date nd not be worried. I mean i never brought up the subject, but im afriad if i do, shell make me brake up with him .. nd to make it worse, i dont really get along with my parents or praticuly tell them anything about my life .. PLEASE SHOULD I ASK MY MOM, IF SO THEN HOW ? ND WAT IF SHE DOESNT APPROVE ?
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Jul 6 2006, 04:45 PM
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Well how long have ya'll been together ?
Anyways just be like " mom would it be okay if i have a boyfriend, if you meet him & blah blah" see what she says about that...& if she's okay with it then let him come over & meet your parents dont tell your mom you love him yet...because she's not going to believe you love him & she might think you want to have sex with him because you "think" you love him...& im not saying you do love him or not. But if she doesnt like the idea of you having a bf then...if you truly like him just dont say anything about it. I mean you've gotten through at least a couple of days without her knowing you have a bf...right ? & if you wanna go on a date just tell you mom your going out to the movies with a couple of friends..& meet up with him ? BUT then again if she does find out your hiding him from her she might think there is something fishy about him ya know what i mean ? - i know if i had a daugher & she hid something that simple from me i would wonder what else she hides from me ? & i would think is there a reason she's hiding him from me is there something wrong with him ? Well just do what you have to do :) |
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LoveIsxMyLife HELP ! Jul 6 2006, 03:41 PM
Classical Twist You should try talking to her about dating in gene... Jul 6 2006, 05:15 PM
baby_in_blue just go with the flow, tell your mom.
the worst th... Jul 6 2006, 05:40 PM
xbabyboo Tell her your growing up and your ready for a rela... Jul 6 2006, 06:42 PM
da_SALSA well if you dont have a good relationship w/ your ... Jul 6 2006, 09:12 PM
magicfann Take a few black-and-white pictures of your boyfri... Jul 6 2006, 09:39 PM
cassjamminx ^ hahahhahahahahah that's a good one, huh?
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LoveIsxMyLife Well, thanks everybody for helping, but the thing ... Jul 7 2006, 02:10 PM
airam QUOTE(LoveIsxMyLife @ Jul 7 2006, 3:10 PM... Jul 8 2006, 01:45 PM
**moonstruck** Just tell her. Sit down with her like at night bef... Jul 7 2006, 09:00 PM
WHIMSICAL 0NE Just talk with her. My mother is the "smother... Jul 8 2006, 12:51 AM
Brittany Rachelle How old are you? She shouldn't be mad or make ... Jul 8 2006, 09:46 PM
Cake. look, don't tell your mom about your boyfriend... Jul 9 2006, 12:10 AM
helllla jankyyyy If I were in your place I wouldn't tell her. I... Jul 9 2006, 12:13 AM
Chad_man tell ur mom, if she doesn't approve forget her... Jul 9 2006, 12:31 AM
x3itsLYSS I think you should tell her now because she'd ... Jul 9 2006, 10:14 PM
I_Heart_Blink it kind of would help to know your age.
if you... Jul 12 2006, 12:29 AM
pinayprincess well yeah; take a shot, but if you RATHER NOT RISK... Jul 12 2006, 12:38 AM![]() ![]() |