HELP !, how should i tell my mom .. |
HELP !, how should i tell my mom .. |
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I have had a couple of bf's now, nd the one im currently with, wel i REALLY like him, but i didnt tell my mom. Instead of sneaking behind her back, i wanna go on an actual real date nd not be worried. I mean i never brought up the subject, but im afriad if i do, shell make me brake up with him .. nd to make it worse, i dont really get along with my parents or praticuly tell them anything about my life .. PLEASE SHOULD I ASK MY MOM, IF SO THEN HOW ? ND WAT IF SHE DOESNT APPROVE ?
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![]() another victim of love ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 ![]() |
Well how long have ya'll been together ?
Anyways just be like " mom would it be okay if i have a boyfriend, if you meet him & blah blah" see what she says about that...& if she's okay with it then let him come over & meet your parents dont tell your mom you love him yet...because she's not going to believe you love him & she might think you want to have sex with him because you "think" you love him...& im not saying you do love him or not. But if she doesnt like the idea of you having a bf then...if you truly like him just dont say anything about it. I mean you've gotten through at least a couple of days without her knowing you have a bf...right ? & if you wanna go on a date just tell you mom your going out to the movies with a couple of friends..& meet up with him ? BUT then again if she does find out your hiding him from her she might think there is something fishy about him ya know what i mean ? - i know if i had a daugher & she hid something that simple from me i would wonder what else she hides from me ? & i would think is there a reason she's hiding him from me is there something wrong with him ? Well just do what you have to do :) |
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