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Best Friend, boyfriend?
*Steph Chan*
post Jul 1 2006, 10:34 PM
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So here's another of my stupid scenario's in which I need help with.

There's this boy, that I've been really good friends with for the past two years. I can tell him anything at all, excluding boy problems, which sometimes include him.

So story goes, he used to really like me last summer, & I was confused about him. Then come the school year, I liked some other guy, & he admitted that he was jealous. I guess he kind of got over me, but we remained good friends.

Now, throughout the entire school year he always gave me the impression that he liked me still liked me (touching, closeness etc). However one of my friends informed me that he told her that he had gotten over me.

Seeing that it is summer again, me & him still keep in touch, the occassional phone calls. We are too caught up in our own stuff to hang out right now, & I miss him terribly. I'm starting to think that I'm falling for him & my friends really think I should go out with him.

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lanbexx
post Jul 6 2006, 04:13 PM
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this is what he thinks

he liked u a lot. u went out with another guy. he thinks ur kind of a bitch for doing that (just out of jealousy, not realistically). he got over you. now u want to try and go back to him? are u freakin serious?? if u value him as a friend dont do anything. if u want to lose him, ask him out. itll be about a month and a half before he starts becoming jealous over other guys, becoming overprotective, and its all gonna collapse and youre never going to talk to each other.

how do i know this? cause it happened to me. admittedly a bit worse (we went out, she cheated, broke up, she tried to come back). it will not work out. hell u cant even find enough time in ur schedule to hang out /w him, dont be lying to urself and think that he will accept u back with open arms. might as well believe ur a princess that can fly
 

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Steph Chan   Best Friend, boyfriend?   Jul 1 2006, 10:34 PM
xXYouMeBedNowXx   I have the same exact problem. But then again, it...   Jul 1 2006, 11:35 PM
This Confession   ^wheres the help? no offense! I'm getting ...   Jul 2 2006, 12:02 AM
xbabyboo   Maybe he does still like you.Don`t always beli...   Jul 2 2006, 12:05 AM
klee   i think you should tell him how u feel. as lame as...   Jul 2 2006, 12:28 AM
Kathleen   QUOTEMaybe he does still like you.Don`t always...   Jul 2 2006, 03:05 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   dont fall for people's words. they can be wro...   Jul 2 2006, 04:18 AM
Steph Chan   Yeah, stupid me, i forgot one part of the story. ...   Jul 2 2006, 10:16 AM
Uronacid   Ok, you will cause more trouble if you arn;t hones...   Jul 2 2006, 02:37 PM
MasterNe0   From a guy view who had a similiar situation. He m...   Jul 2 2006, 03:55 PM
Steph Chan   In response to Uronacid You see, it's not tha...   Jul 5 2006, 08:44 AM
baby_in_blue   wow. this is interesting. i`d just say go for ...   Jul 6 2006, 02:38 AM
lanbexx   this is what he thinks he liked u a lot. u went o...   Jul 6 2006, 04:13 PM
Steph Chan   QUOTE(lanbexx @ Jul 6 2006, 5:13 PM) this...   Jul 9 2006, 09:57 PM
magicfann   play an aggressive defense like Alternate aTTaX an...   Jul 10 2006, 12:23 AM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   how about talkin to him first before you make your...   Jul 11 2006, 08:28 PM
pinayprincess   i dont think you LIKE him... in my opinion i'm...   Jul 12 2006, 12:28 AM
Steph Chan   ^I completely agree.. considering I know that I r...   Jul 13 2006, 11:32 PM
Shinji_Mimura   ^ Good Job. < Congratulates you. V She doesn...   Jul 14 2006, 02:41 AM


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