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 Jun 17 2006, 06:20 PM
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 Hold my hand lets chase the sun  Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,942  |
yea i was just wondering what you guys think about arranged marriages? it doesn't happen as often ne more but in some countries they still do this
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Jul 6 2006, 03:42 AM
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I think its both right and wrong in a sense, it depends on the people who are being arranged to get married. I respect that arranged marriages are apart of people`s culture and believes, but I also think that people have the right to marry whoever they want. I think parents who really love their children will do whatever makes them happy, allowing the child to choose wether they want an arranged marriage or not. I have a friend who is being arranged to get married. Her parents are really strict and she can`t have a boyfriend so she always has to keep her relationships a secret from them. She actually knows the guy she`s arranged to get married to, but they`re just friends and they`re both against it. She has a boyfriend, but her sister wants them to break up. She against it, but at the same time she doesn`t want to go against her parents` wishes. Her parents think its good for her, but I don`t think it is. I don`t think all arranged marriages are bad, it can be either a good thing or bad thing, depending on the person having to go through it. There`s a wrong and right in everything.... at least I think there is.
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luvnhate arranged marriages Jun 17 2006, 06:20 PM
Angelina Taylor Entirely wrong!!! Why not let people f... Jun 17 2006, 06:44 PM
NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 17 2006, 6:44... Jun 17 2006, 08:44 PM marzipan i think it's wrong. people should be able to c... Jun 17 2006, 08:46 PM This Confession people can fall in love and get married exactly ho... Jun 18 2006, 07:13 AM sw33t_rouge i think arrnaged marriages are not wrong or right.... Jun 18 2006, 07:48 AM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(sw33t_rouge @ Jun 18 2006, 8:48 AM)... Jun 18 2006, 05:12 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 18 2006, 6:12... Jun 18 2006, 05:52 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jun 18 2006, 6... Jun 18 2006, 06:40 PM icy_wonderland QUOTE(sw33t_rouge @ Jun 18 2006, 8:48 PM)... Jul 7 2006, 04:10 AM Steph Chan totally against them. Jun 18 2006, 05:42 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK ^Well there are many things wrong in the world. I ... Jun 18 2006, 06:43 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jun 18 2006, 7... Jun 18 2006, 07:54 PM NinjaxMageLayouts I agree with taylor all the way.Sure some cultures... Jun 18 2006, 06:44 PM Ajmalhuuss I am pakistani and in my country over 80% of the m... Jun 20 2006, 09:00 AM x_lilvietdreamer_x what if you arranged to marry someone that you did... Jun 20 2006, 10:04 AM zomgznoway I agree with ajmalhuuss. I'm Indian, and I... Jun 26 2006, 03:51 PM ECD & C0 QUOTEIn no way does it mean your parents pick some... Jun 26 2006, 03:52 PM Paradox of Life I don't think marriage may be forced in Americ... Jun 26 2006, 03:57 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jun 26 2006, 3:57... Jul 2 2006, 02:54 AM Paradox of Life QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 2 2006, 2:5... Jul 4 2006, 02:27 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jul 4 2006, 2:27 ... Jul 4 2006, 04:05 PM Paradox of Life QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 4 2006, 4:0... Jul 7 2006, 12:49 AM iRock cB QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 2 2006, 3:5... Jul 4 2006, 05:49 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 4 2006, 5:49 PM) Bef... Jul 5 2006, 01:42 AM iRock cB Statement:QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 5 200... Jul 6 2006, 01:36 AM Chad_man QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 4 2006, 3:49 PM) Bef... Jul 6 2006, 10:13 AM iRock cB QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 6 2006, 11:13 AM) U... Jul 6 2006, 10:30 PM rawtheekuh. ^dude, wth. did you even bother taking the time to... Jul 2 2006, 07:33 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Jul 2 2006, 7:33 PM) ... Jul 4 2006, 02:50 AM iRock cB I think it's wrong but I'm sure the ugly g... Jul 3 2006, 02:44 PM Spiritual Winged Aura omg.
it happen between my asian parents, mom and ... Jul 6 2006, 02:56 AM icy_wonderland I think it's REALLY wrong. i think marriage i... Jul 6 2006, 10:41 PM skinnyminnie i think that the parents get security in the knowl... Jul 6 2006, 11:52 PM Angelina Taylor It just.. it defeats the purpose of life (accordin... Jul 7 2006, 12:42 PM iRock cB QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 7 2006, 1:42 ... Jul 7 2006, 06:56 PM vandiee my parents got arranged.
and they're fine. so... Jul 7 2006, 04:31 PM Angelina Taylor ^ Good, I'm glad. Jul 7 2006, 07:39 PM Listelle Love may be missing in an arranged marriage, but w... Jul 8 2006, 10:06 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Listelle @ Jul 8 2006, 11:06 PM) Lo... Jul 8 2006, 10:47 PM Listelle ^Actually, I'm not.
Maybe its because my fami... Jul 8 2006, 11:09 PM Angelina Taylor ^
Just because you want to marry someone you love... Jul 9 2006, 08:30 AM priyas i don't like them.
Neither do my parents. SO... Jul 9 2006, 09:44 AM Paradox of Life ^ Please keep in mind that this is a debate. Eithe... Jul 9 2006, 01:23 PM |
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