eenie meenie minie moe =\, i dont dunno how to explain my situation in one sentence but i knoe i Options

[xLilSwtPiNaix]

*sigh* guys...why do they have to be so complicated?

okie...how to explain my whole situation??

i knoe ill explain it in a story just hopefully you guys will understand it to give me a little advice.

characters:
me = me (durrr)
T = bestfriend
E = my bf
A = ex bf

sooo it all began when my ex bf, A... just dumped me. since i liked A very much...obviously i was sad and i turned to my bestfriend, T... fer some moral support. After 2 -3 weeks after the break up T and i became "more than friends." we both liked each other but we never actually got together b/c i was uncomfortable about the whole idea just going to some new guy right away and it was almost the end of the year and i might not see him during the summer. 2 weeks before school ened...T wasn't showing up at school. so i was wondering where the heck is he. then one day i called him....and i found out he got a brain tumor and he wont be there fer the rest of the school year.so then i got all sad but when he told me he'll be alright i was like "okie" but in my head i was thinking "god please dont let him die....hes my bestfriend i just love him very much and i HATE it if i lost him".

when he wasn't at school fer those 2 weeks...i kinda sorta started to like this other guy, E...then after i went to one of my friends gradution party..thats when we got hooked up. when T got out of the hospital and he got back home. and started to talk online, i told him i was going out with E. when i told him the whole story. he just sed"well as long as your happy im happy =D. yea...my head hurts a lot right now. ill talk to you later. bye" he told me that exact words. when he sed that i knew he was lying and he was hurt. i was upset too b/c i knew i should have waited before i started going out with E, b/c I KNEW i liked T, A WHOLE lot more. after that conversation he just stopped talking to me.

2 weeks after that conversation. he IMed me seeing hows everything going. then i told him eveyrthings all good blah blah blah. then he was like "its weird talking to you now" then he told me about WANTING to ask me out but his whole surgery got in the way and that he was upset when i told him about E and me we going out. and that he liked me soo much and that he just cant get me out of his mind and all he wanted to do while he was at the hospital was talk to me but he couldnt call b/c of his parents. and a WHOLE LOT of other things. then when he told me that...i was like...crap. i dont want to break up with E b/c its ONLY been a week but i knoe i like T a lot more.

so now heres the big problem should i just break it off with my bf?? or no??
just to remind you...
T is my bestfriend...always been by my side since...the beginning of the year.
E is a guy who asked me out, whole i barely even talked to during the year, were not even the close of friends.

okie. if you guys need more infomation just ask me...
plz help. im so confused

[SarahxJoy]

I think the choice is obvious. I think you should break things off with E, because like you said, you barely talked to the guy during the school year, and you two aren't even close as friends. You'll feel bad for breaking up with E, because you now realize that it all went by too fast, but you'll feel even worse for hurting your best friend and knowing especially, that he's the one you've got wayyy more feelings towards.

So, bottom line: Break up with E, mend your friendship with T, and see if you two can go in the direction the both of you seem to have wanted, and possibly still want. If not, then you two can still remain good friends after fixing things.

Good luck.

[xlilaznchickx]

I think the choice is obvious. I think you should break things off with E, because like you said, you barely talked to the guy during the school year, and you two aren't even close as friends. You'll feel bad for breaking up with E, because you now realize that it all went by too fast, but you'll feel even worse for hurting your best friend and knowing especially, that he's the one you've got wayyy more feelings towards.

So, bottom line: Break up with E, mend your friendship with T, and see if you two can go in the direction the both of you seem to have wanted, and possibly still want. If not, then you two can still remain good friends after fixing things.

Good luck.

i totally agree with tainted_angel....on how to break up with E and yea...