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 Jul 5 2006, 05:53 AM
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Ok yesterday my boyfriend said he was feeling insecure about me,worry that i'd leave him.And then he was mentioning marriage and then changed the subjct and I was just on the phone to him before and I said I wanna see you and he goes why and isaid coz I miss you and he goes why and I said coz I love you and he goes why?And I said why do you want to know?And he goes I just do.And I told him why I love him and he said but I lecture you(what we were fighting about earlier on) and barely ever come to your house.I was like are you trying to break up with me?And he goes no then laughed and said you're an idiot.I thought about it more and I went all quiet then hung up...
Have I taken him the wrong way?I'm so confused. -EDIT- I just spoke to him then and he said as if i'd break up with you i love you,I was just curious but I didn't see it that way...How would you take it if you were me? |
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Jul 5 2006, 08:22 AM
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1) he's messing around
2) he likes another girl 3) he's a bit slow in the head 4) he's trying to show he's sensitive and philosophical and is a great thinker 5) he's thinking about jack bauer |
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Jul 5 2006, 01:41 PM
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QUOTE(magicfann @ Jul 5 2006, 11:22 PM)  1) he's messing around 2) he likes another girl 3) he's a bit slow in the head 4) he's trying to show he's sensitive and philosophical and is a great thinker 5) he's thinking about jack bauer Wtf? I don't think he's playing mind games.I think he was talking about marriage because he's scared of losing me.he said he felt strange yesterday,he felt insecure because he all the sudden felt like I was going to leave him. I dunno why he felt it, he said he didn't know why. I said maybe it's because when he's first ever girlfriend that he was with,he loved and she left him and he was an absolute wreck,I spoke to his sister about it.And he's just scared of loosing me too.I think he felt that insecure that he was talking about marriage.He tells me he loves me every day,he messages me or calls me every day.He said to me the other day he really really really misses me and wishes he saw me every day.I mean i'm sure people going through a stage of feeling insecure about their partner?And he doesn't want me going out to clubs with just my friends either... We've been going out for 6 months. And he did mention in a message,that he wanted to know bad things about him, because maybe there is things he can change.They were his words...I dunno maybe he rreally does love me and just wanted to know,or that he's just feleing really insecure and thats why he wants to see,so he can try better not to do those things? |
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misfit Confused.. Jul 5 2006, 05:53 AM
Paradox of Life QUOTE(magicfann @ Jul 5 2006, 8:22 AM) 1)... Jul 7 2006, 12:22 AM
lyin_in_wait either hes playing some serious mind games on some... Jul 5 2006, 09:22 AM tainted_angel How he said all of that, that wasn't cool. I s... Jul 5 2006, 11:53 AM bballchick1 Wow, he's seriously messing with you.
He... Jul 5 2006, 12:43 PM STFULiNDA Umm..it looks like you know what you were confused... Jul 5 2006, 05:22 PM misfit ,I was asking for opinions,but hm yeah I suppose I... Jul 5 2006, 08:37 PM xbabyboo If I were you,I would be sort of mad..I wouldn... Jul 5 2006, 08:41 PM baby_in_blue QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jul 5 2006, 8:41 PM) If ... Jul 6 2006, 02:26 AM misfit Why so you all think he's been unfaithful?None... Jul 6 2006, 07:21 AM yanners Okay, to be honest, I didn't really understand... Jul 6 2006, 08:55 AM lyin_in_wait Every guy plays mind games, whether its intentiona... Jul 6 2006, 01:04 PM lanbexx its simple. he loves you, he's jealous of othe... Jul 6 2006, 04:04 PM STFULiNDA I think he's just worried that you might just ... Jul 6 2006, 04:33 PM misfit Thanx,you're really sweet =)...And yeah girls ... Jul 6 2006, 09:45 PM anoniez lol he's just being insecure, my boyfriend doe... Jul 6 2006, 09:59 PM misfit now i feel like smsing him and getting angry at hi... Jul 6 2006, 10:08 PM cassjamminx ^ try not to sweat it out so much.
i know some ev... Jul 6 2006, 10:30 PM misfit I just don't stay at his house through the wee... Jul 7 2006, 12:44 AM |
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