arranged marriages, ? Options

[luvnhate]

yea i was just wondering what you guys think about arranged marriages? it doesn't happen as often ne more but in some countries they still do this
so what do u think about them?

[Paradox of Life]

I don't think marriage may be forced in America... but if it's religious and a tradition that's gone on for decades and decades, just marry the man and make the best of it, I guess.

[NinjaxMageLayout...]

I don't think marriage may be forced in America... but if it's religious and a tradition that's gone on for decades and decades, just marry the man and make the best of it, I guess.

But that is so damn disgusting and utterly rude.so what if they say "my daughter/son,you make me proud,your getting married to your cousin today,congradulations"What so thats cool too?!Thats just nasty,My brothers friend had to marry his cousin which is just nasty ew.Arranged marriages are wrong i say.WRONG!!

[Paradox of Life]

But that is so damn disgusting and utterly rude.so what if they say "my daughter/son,you make me proud,your getting married to your cousin today,congradulations"What so thats cool too?!Thats just nasty,My brothers friend had to marry his cousin which is just nasty ew.Arranged marriages are wrong i say.WRONG!!

Are you even aware of what you are saying or how ignorant you sound? You think that arranged marriages are "rude". Well, I think your respect for religion (or lack thereof) is "utterly rude". Do you think that arranged marriages were created to make peoples' lives miserable? No, because that's how they parents were put together, and their parents' parents. So respect that some people have different ideas of what is "right" or "wrong". And not everyone involved in an arranged marriage dislikes it. Yeah, like Brenden and Ajmalhuuss said ().

But if they do dislike it, it's their decision within their family, and whether or not it can be negotiated just depends on how strict they are. And it is not anyone else's business.

[NinjaxMageLayout...]

Are you even aware of what you are saying or how ignorant you sound? You think that arranged marriages are "rude". Well, I think your respect for religion (or lack thereof) is "utterly rude". Do you think that arranged marriages were created to make peoples' lives miserable? No, because that's how they parents were put together, and their parents' parents. So respect that some people have different ideas of what is "right" or "wrong". And not everyone involved in an arranged marriage dislikes it. Yeah, like Brenden and Ajmalhuuss said ().

But if they do dislike it, it's their decision within their family, and whether or not it can be negotiated just depends on how strict they are. And it is not anyone else's business.

Ok do you know how stupid YOU sound,
-One you said its no one elses buisness,so why get into it?why not go away and mind yours?
-Also you may think my respect for religion is utterly rude,religion or not,having an arranged marriage is sick and disgusting,Yes other people have different outlooks on whats right and wrong but overally religion is still an opinion and their opinion to me is just EWWWWWW.And not everyone HAS to be in the arrangement to have to dislike it,it doesnt matter on anyone others feeling it depends on he/she is being forced to be married.

-Plus,it wont matter to the parents really because all they will discuss is finding a new person.Which still doesnt change the fact of how he/she feels.

WHAT if he/she was lesbian or gay then what? Let them be able to marry who'm they want to and be able to love who they want to especially if their sexual orientation is not straight but homosexual.

-So basically to me what you said about what i said,is like you saying its all good to marry your own cousin?!If you are saying that then i believe you need help,correct me otherwise if im wrong if your not saying that.