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[illushun_eyez]

alohaz!
have any of you ladiez n guyz, ever felt like you have been used or feeling used from your other? wellz, i have my really good friend feeling that she iz being used by her boyfriend. they have been going out for about 1 year and something monthz and just recently they have been going through their downz. something about being with my friend because of a bet. and they just had sex on monday. my friend did comfort him but all he did to her was yell at her and just asumming thingz. anywayz, she feelz that he iznt telling her thingz and that she iz being used for sex. any adivce to give to my friend. because i really didnt have a good adivce to give her expect that she haz to stick up for herself and dont let him think any of thiz iz her fault. wellz, got adivce? please help me i really care for my good friend all i could do with her iz cry because i felt like that before but, i dotn want her kicking any ass thatz what i did. and she doesnt deserve thiz at all.
mahaloz

[Just_Dream]

And this is.. WHY peole should WAIT until they have sex! lol Awww she shouldn't have done it with him =( I don't have any real advice for her...


But sometimes people do tell me that my boyfriedn uses me because I do sometimes do his homework and I almost always buy him a soda everyday lol and then it seems like I'M the only one being all romantic with him while he just sits there and hugs back sometimes and is like whatever lol. Once in a while people tell me I should get someone that will treat me right, but truly, Tony (my bf of course lol) does treat me right. It's just that he is lazy nowadays and he has a lot going on in his mind. I do tell him to act more romantic and such, but he just can't stay focused on me... It worries about othre things in life (but not about other girls so it's okay). It's just that, sometimes.. i wish I could turn back time and try to help him in some situations that so that his life would be easier. I try to hard to make things right, but in the end, I end up hurting myself (emotionally). So I'm just going to let it go and whatever happens, happens. But I know that he won't leave me because I love him too much and that he really does care about me alot.

Yea, a conversation for us went something like this...

Christina: If I died, would you cry?
Tony: No
Christina: Really? Not even a tear?
Tony: I'll be sad, but probably not cry. I'm not that kind of guy. I wouldn't mourn. I'd be really sad though.
Christina: Really? I see... You don't love me enough to cry, huh?
Tony: I wouldn't cry if my parents died. I'd be sad but that's about it. I wouldn't feel like crying.
Christina: Meaning you dn't love me enough to cry.
Tony: ... Would you cry for me?
Christina: Of course I would. I'd even cry if we broke up. You know I would. I'd cry day and night because I'd miss you too much.
Tony: Aww... I love you.
Christina: ... But... what about if you crashed your car?
Tony: Hell yea I'd cry! I'd mourn my smashed car too.
Christina: I knew cars would always be first place...
Tony: ...
Christina: *teardrop* You once did cry for me... Not anymore.. *teardrop*
Tony: aww...

Today... (ewnt SOMETHING like this)

Christina: Really, what we talked about yesterday, you'd never cry for me?
Tony: Well okay, maybe a little but I wouldn't really mourn. Or maybe I'd mourn a little but not cry.
Christina: Oh okay... I see... And yet you'd cry so much and mourn for your car...
Tony: ...
Christina: ... I Love You. *hug*
Tony: I love you more so there.
Christina: Morest and mostest.

I don't know what's going on... =(