Do you think LOVE is overrated?, Do u really love someone or just saying i love you in a relationship b Options

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Ok, so i've dated a guy for a little over a year and of course we said Iloveyou. But who really knows what love is? I dont think i was in love because when I think about it now.. I dont know if i was. It was in 2003. So i think if i cant remember it must not have been.

Then there was another guy. We also exchanged the three word sentence and maybe ILOVEYOU was just a subsititution for the attractive we had strongly against each other.

Well now there is this wonderful guy I am talking to. He does everything any girl would want.

It maybe corny but its exactly what you decribe and see in the movies. I feel different towards him then I felt towards the others two. When i think about him i just smile even if something very wrong is happening. I talk to him and i just get soo happy. I cant stop thinking about him and when im with him i dont care about anyone or anything else. If i lost him, id be devistated. I think I maybe falling in love with this amazing guy. We have been talking for nearly a month now, and I am/have been on vacation for a month and we miss each other very much. We talk everyday and its always something new. We are always telling the truth and ahh i dont know what it is. His personality is great and I just love being around him.


I am sixteen years old, So could this be love?

[*This Confession*]

do you guys agree that people don't have to fit the signs of being in-love to be in-love?

Signs?


Okay some doctor wrote these.
and its like the 7 stages of love

here :

First Level: Security, simply. We feel safe and secure with the person we are with. The security is more than a friend you can tell everything to because should the same security be offered to others, jealously might/will occur.

Second Level: Pleasure. The person offers pleasure and comfort. This could just be a comforting place after a long, hard day or more physical pleasure.

Third Level: Companionship. The person we are with shares the same ideas, thoughts and feels (at least in general) and offers positive reinforcement for our daily goals and aspirations.

Fourth Level: Unconditional love. This is the stage where both people see the other as being imperfect. Should one person make a mistake or the two people get into a fight, they would still be loved by their partner. A good example is the love of a parent for a child; even when the child misbehaves, the parent will never stop loving them.

Fifth Level: Universal love. This stage indicates a desire to feel unconditional love (or forgive) other people outside the relationship. This could be described as the stage where suddenly the sky seems bluer and the grass greener and you can see the good in everyone.

Sixth Level: Soulful love. The attraction between the two does not rely on the physical. Things like death, injury or old age do not change the feelings between the two. There is a realization of a deeper part of human nature (the soul) which is loved more than the body it is in.

Seventh Level: Divine love. Regardless of religious beliefs, this stage is closely related to the love of Jesus Christ in the Christian faith. It is a realization that there will be no separation through death and that we are all part of one consciousness.


In Closing


Love, no matter what system you believe in, takes time and an investment of time in both yourself and the other person. While there can be daily trauma, fights or insecurities, love tends to be a foundation that cannot be so easily effected. If the foundation of any relationship is strong, even if it is friendship, there are few things that can break it.