depressed..., he broke up with me because.. Options

[LiSFORLiNDA]

one day before our one month & he breaks up with me :[
he says he cant have a successful relationship because he works too much.yeah wtf ever, what did i do to deserve this? Man all i've done was show him how much i care for him & be there when he needs me. Shit how can you love someone one night & be talkign like your soul mates then the next night you break it off. It took him almost a month to realize that he doesnt have time for a relationship....

i miss him so badly :[ - i mean you always talk about "crying yourself to sleep" yeah well when you actually do it..its a horrible feeling..your last thoughts before your off to lala land. i had heartbreaking dreams;UGH then when i woke up im like this isnt real but when i look at my phone i have to make myself believe its real.[we were texting] It doesnt seem real ya know what i mean ? its like is there anything i could've done that would have stopped this ? but even if there was its not like i have a remote to rewind what happen like in the movies...too bad life isnt like the movies- i just want him back so badly

i know this is like another "breakup" post but i just needed to let it all out :(

[*Uronacid*]

Hey, you need to be glad that he didn't do this 3-4 months down the road. If you're thankful you can probably salvage the relationship by just being friends...

Also, there are probably more reasons to him breaking it off with you. The reason he gae you just might just be 1 of them. He did say he would rather be with you than anyone else... it's possible that he doesn't want to date people at all. Maybe he just didn't see it working in the long run. You never know. It's accually more intelligent to wait and date rather thatn date in highschool. You have to worry about all the bullshit drama running through the school, and it can really work towards your dissadvantage.

Look at it this way, at least you can still be friends with him. I did the same thing to my ex-girlfriend grace, and she is one of the best friends I know.

For some reason you ex was not happy with the relationship. So, he cut it off. There is nothing wrong with that. It takes two. You can like him all you want and with all your might, but if he doesn't feel right about the realtionsip. You need to accept that and settle with what he has to offer you.