What to do?, boyfriend trouble? Anniversary date? |
What to do?, boyfriend trouble? Anniversary date? |
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`Kay I have no idea where to start.
Let`see. I have a boyfriend and I really do truely love him. He really means more than anything to me. Problem though. He's been acting different recently. Or atleast I think so. We never talk anymore or do anything. I see him Mon-Fri `cause we have work together kind of. We watch little kids. Anyways, we can`t hug each other or anything during work `cause we`d get in trouble. That`s the only time and place I ever see him though. I know you`re all probably thinking just go out during the weekends or something. Long story but that`s no too possible for me. And also we end at night and I can`t go out to the mall after work. The `rents are horrible. `Kay so apprantly everyone thinks I should talk to him. Some think he ditches me too much for his friends and that I should just drag him away from his friends and make him spend time with me. I just let him hang with his friends though `cause I want him to be happy and do something that he wants to do and not just make him sit there on the side with me. So some think that I`m too much of a pushover. Some think that I`m acting like I don`t care. Like WTHeck. I do care about him I just don`t want him to think I`m clingy, annoying, and/or a "`Omigawsh spend time with me 24/7" kind of girl. I really hope he doesn`t think that I don`t care. I don`t want to confront him `cause I just don`t do that kind of stuff. I`m terribly afraid that he`ll get mad at me or even hate me. I know you`re probably thinking if he` loves you then he won`t be mad but I`m just really not comfortable confronting him or talking to him about it. Our anniversary is coming up and it`s not like a really major one like one year or two year etc. anniversary but it still means a lot to me and it`d be nice if we spent a little time together. I really don`t want to go to the mall. I was thinking we could both take off of work early or just spend 30 minutes together after work so I`ll be home before it gets too dark and the `rents won`t be too upset. Where would be a nice place though? Would the park be lame or what? And what would we do there? Just talk? I`m kind of worried that some summer fun programs will still be going on when we go and that will just ruin everything. By the way, what do you guys think of getting him a present too? I`m not too sure what to get him. If I`m getting him something I don`t want to get him a shirt `cause I got that for him how many times already. And he`s not the mushy lovey dovey card kind of guy either. He says he doesn`t like being showered with gifts so would a gift be a good or bad idea? ![]() |
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We broke up.
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
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