In the shadow, Should I tell my friend that.. Options

[loveandsins]

Ok my question to you all this: should i tell my friend that by the way she acts and all she's totally putting our other friend inthe shadow?

It's kinda hard to explain but it's like this: I'm really good friends with 2 girls. They have been friends longer than i've been with them. Now my one friend is a really open girl, her parents let her be wild and all, she's very nice and all but i don't agree with most of the stuff that she does. My other friend is just as nice as her yet by not being, let's say slutty, as my other friend she doesn't really get noticed. She's always in the shadow. They are really alike but just bc she doesn't have a new bf every week who tells everone bout her sex life she is just kinda ignored. I'm kinda on the outside, bc ppl know i'm my own person and all but i don't know if i should tell either one of my friends, both of them seem to not notice. But i'm not the only one who thinks this. It's always the same story; My one friend likes a guy, the guy ends up liking my other friend. So..

Should I tell my friend that she's being to..idk ignorant to notice what she's doing?Or should i just shut up and watch all the same stuff happen over and over again?

[*Uronacid*]

Omgosh! thats just like me and my friends... there is nothing wrong with that! My friend Nick is this super buff looking ken doll... hes really out going and gets all the girls... I guess i realized that he's really a blessing in my life. I don't ever get stuck with girls who are consumed in how a guy looks rather than his personality. I say you should let it all go the way it's going. Your one outgoing friend is stealing all the spotlight from the one girl in the showdows. Think about this:

-Tinne is accually doing Elies a favor. Elies will never get stuck with a self centered guy, becuase Tinne is always taking all the hits.

-Think of Tinne as more of a guy filter. Shes like the ozone layer, and Elies is the earth... you wouldn't want her to get hit with all those harmful UV rays. ;)

Let the situation play out. Eventually a guy will come along and pay attention to her, because she isn't a slutty little skanky ho ho.