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Non Supportive Parents
*My Cinderella.*
post Jun 20 2006, 11:09 PM
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So, are your parents the type that don't appreciate anything that you do? Or don't support what you want to do or be when you grow up? My parents are. _dry.gif They don't support my whole acting idea of a career and want me to do something more "productive". Anyone else feel the same way?
 
 
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post Jun 27 2006, 03:58 AM
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Mine..are just there. I talk to them because I have to, but even then, they don't know me--let alone support me.

All they wanted me to do is get good grades and to be social and happy. I did none of that. So now, they just want me to be social and go to school. Eh. They really don't know how I think, or what I think--and I have nothing I'd need support from, really..

Well, I'd need their support if I was feeling extremely depressed or something, but they're just insensitive and unintentionally cruel that it's not worth going to them anymore.
I don't know. I fall under the "I've lost touch with my parents and we still live in the same household" category.
Hm. From reading the other replies here, I guess I'd have to add more.

My parents are not supportive in which I do something--a little thing--and they are all over me, congratulating me. I never had the "I just got an A in my World History test!" "Congrats! We love you so much!" but just a simple "Good." or not even caring, really. And that's happened more than a few times. But, then again, when I get those kinds of grades in tests, I just shrug it off as luck..maybe they do the same, who knows.

Hm. My parents weren't close at all, actually. They never were affectionate towards me, they never told me they loved me [I never heard "I love you." until I had seen it on t.v.]. But I was given gifts--and it was usually thrown in my face if I said I didn't feel cared for. "How can you think we don't care about you or don't love you; look at all we bought for you!"
Yeaaaah. Material things don't equate with love.

And even little things like PTA meetings, or open houses, or even a dance recital were just a pain for them to bother coming to. I remember they came to my 5th grade graduation, though. I cried because they were there..I didn't think they'd come. It was nice, I guess.
They were never involved, really. Now they're involved because I stopped going and it caused a big mess. Now they know about my so-called problems because there are others telling them they exist. But even through all of that, they really can't keep from laughing when I tell them how I feel [depressed, anxious, sick, panicky] because they feel I'm making it up. I'm sure they don't even..
Meh. I've thought too much about this and it came off so disorganized. I'll stop typing now.
 

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My Cinderella.   Non Supportive Parents   Jun 20 2006, 11:09 PM
NERDface™   mine is like that. I personally don't care if ...   Jun 20 2006, 11:15 PM
This Confession   My parents are alright or ehm well my dad is My mo...   Jun 20 2006, 11:22 PM
xbabyboo   My parents are prettyy suportive.I mean they want ...   Jun 20 2006, 11:40 PM
Yvonne't me   Hah. The `rents. Oh boy. Nothing I do ever sat...   Jun 21 2006, 02:02 AM
tainted_angel   They want me to become a nurse. But I'm not su...   Jun 21 2006, 02:04 AM
gigiopolis   My mom doesn't support me at all for anything,...   Jun 21 2006, 03:23 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Jun 21 2006, 1:23 AM) ...   Jun 21 2006, 04:14 AM
magicfann   QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Jun 21 2006, 4:23 AM) ...   Jun 21 2006, 09:56 AM
mary jane 3x3   QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Jun 21 2006, 1:23 AM) ...   Jun 26 2006, 03:51 PM
pastellove_   they basically nag you about what they want you to...   Jun 21 2006, 03:25 AM
SimplicityGirl   Heh I have typical Asian parents who doens't t...   Jun 21 2006, 12:30 PM
Uronacid   OMG, seriously... this sounds bad, but you need to...   Jun 21 2006, 04:15 PM
Uronacid   Respect them... hmmmm, well then you need to have ...   Jun 21 2006, 04:32 PM
Gypsy Eyes   if you do that it screws up your chances of gettin...   Jun 21 2006, 04:54 PM
Uronacid   Look, thats an oportunity cost... I felt that my p...   Jun 21 2006, 05:19 PM
incoherent   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jun 21 2006, 5:19 PM) Lo...   Jun 25 2006, 12:19 AM
My Cinderella.   Yeah. I don't really care about making money f...   Jun 21 2006, 06:17 PM
Uronacid   Exactly, if making money is keeping you from enjoy...   Jun 21 2006, 06:31 PM
Gypsy Eyes   I'm saying it is near impossible to live on mo...   Jun 21 2006, 08:48 PM
marzipan   my parents are very supportive. even though my mom...   Jun 21 2006, 08:50 PM
gigiopolis   Actually, I don't try to be perfect for my par...   Jun 21 2006, 10:00 PM
annabel_x   My parents are never supposrtive. They say that I...   Jun 22 2006, 09:11 PM
pinayprincess   my parents ARE supportive. i wanna be a doctor whe...   Jun 22 2006, 11:10 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   its odd that the people who say that get really su...   Jun 24 2006, 05:56 PM
Listelle   I guess my parents support me, even if they don...   Jun 24 2006, 08:15 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   They do at times... edit// Its not that they dont...   Jun 24 2006, 08:34 PM
seremela_culnamo   My parent's don't care what I want to beco...   Jun 24 2006, 10:33 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   It's not that they discourage me (if you mean ...   Jun 24 2006, 10:39 PM
tic tac.   "Tina, I want you to get straight A's....   Jun 24 2006, 10:48 PM
Emma Sue   I see my parents twice a year.. so.. i guess it...   Jun 25 2006, 04:47 AM
priyas   mine are supportive.---at least my dad is. My mom ...   Jun 25 2006, 08:20 PM
My Cinderella.   My grandma is actually a bit neutral about it. She...   Jun 25 2006, 08:26 PM
Itsa_Pnay   yeah...i think everyone feels that way at one poin...   Jun 27 2006, 02:16 AM
autodidact.   Mine..are just there. I talk to them because I hav...   Jun 27 2006, 03:58 AM


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