speek but no action, we talk but that's it Options

[x_ohhsootragical...]

k so i have this problem... i meet guys and we start talking and everything- ocassionally we become friends- but that's just it. right there! all we do is talk and nothing more! i know guys are attracted to me- no im not trying to sound or be conceited; sorry if i am though- but i seem to NEVER be able to make the move! if i wasnt so- i dont know- i guess nervous i would have a boyfriend. but thankfully i have had a boyfriend who made the move... so basically i jus want some advice or can someone tell me what's happening; whats going on. i need help!

[SimplicityGirl]

so what you're asking is how you can make the move on the guy...?

Well...from what I've read it seems like you only befriend the guy so that you can be involve in a relationship with him...and sorry if that's not what you meant..but it sounds like that when I read it. Firstly...make friends with guys not because you want him to be your bf, but because you want him to be your friend. Then build the friendship...and if you're lucky, something might blossom. It's great that you start the conversations and all, but have you consider the fact that you might be rushing...? Guys can usually tell when a girl is desperate for a bf, and that turns the guy right off. Now I'm not saying that you are...but from what your post sounds like, it honestly sounds like you're only befriending guys to be involved in a relationship.

Now onto the next part. To make the first move...isn't as hard as it seems. Flirt, flirt and flirt. Touch him casually. Spend more time with him alone. Go out with him alone. Walk him to places. Tease him. Ask him questions about himself. Be genuinely concern about him. Care about him. Tell him you care about him. Be close friends with him. Talk to him more. Be able to tell him any and everything. Treat him special. And when you're ready, just tell him that you like him and hope for the best. Or just ask him out. =]