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[kaydarling]

umn.. do ya'll think it's too early to have sex at the age of 15?

[*This Confession*]

If you have talked to the person your going to have sex with, and your up to all the things that could happen. Then go ahead.
But if you and your partner haven't even talked about all the consequences then you aren't ready..

I hope that made sense 0_O

Six Signs You’re NOT Ready for Sexual Contact

1. You're Uncomfortable With Your Body: It might not be too early to consider ramping up your sexual activity, but if you still aren't used to the changes your body has gone through in the past few years, you might want to wait to have sex or get intensely physical. Change is confusing -- and if you're not comfortable with stuff like your own breasts or pubic hair, how are you going to be okay with someone else's body in the mix -- or intimate physical contact with someone else?

2. You're Immature About Sex: Admit it -- everyone laughs when talk gets dirty. But if you're really not able to handle mature talk about sex, like TV shows that deal with physicality or science class sex ed classes, you might want to rethink engaging in it yourself.

3. You Aren't With Someone You Trust: It might seem like a random hookup is the way to go if you're curious about intense physical contact, but do you really want your first experiences to be with a stranger? You might want to consider waiting until you're in a committed relationship before ramping up your physicality -- or at least explore that side of yourself with someone you trust.


4. You've Been Raped or Sexually Abused -- Abuse doesn't mean that sex if off-limits altogether, but if you have issues about sex you might want to seek counseling or help to resolve those conflicts before things get physical. This will ensure that you approach sex with an attitude of health and self-esteem.


5. You Change Your Mind -- It's perfectly okay to decide to "go all the way" and then have second thoughts. Indecision should be respected -- and it's probably a good sign that you're just not ready for intense physicality.


6. You Feel Pressured -- You should never feel put upon to be physical, whether it be kissing or more. If your partner puts pressure on you to do something you find uncomfortable, you might not be ready for sexual activity with this person. Draw healthy boundaries and remember -- you have the right to say no and be respected.